Of course, nothing I like to discuss more than my penis with hot chicks. Breasts are my second favorite topic.

Well the thing is, if I had not been I was circumcised, I would never have known I had something cut off. I think the jury is still out on whether circumcision is a good thing. I think maybe it's best to leave things the way nature produced them unless you have a medical problem.

I'd do it.  There's lots of ways to have foreskin restored.  Surgery right down to tape.  Haven't tried it yet, but I've always been resentful at my forced mutilation.  That being said, I love my penis dearly so I can live with it as it is... just think it'd be cool to reclaim what was, ugh, lost.

I can't understand what you are speaking of the way you write it.  Please try to use correct punctuation and capitalization.  Reading that is just going to give me a headache.

Back in my fundie days, I remember seeing an ad for this in a Christian publication, so that good Christian women could re-virginize themselves for their husband.

Apropos of almost nothing, a few years ago, a girl I used to date had a long talk with her cousin, who was a virgin, and about to get married to a crazy fundie guy.  She knew virtually nothing about sex, so my ex was telling her stuff she needed to know.  Ironically (No... I'm not bitter about how much she disliked giving head...) she taught the girl how to do a good blowjob.  (I'm particularly not bitter because she was freakishly good at it but pretty much refused to do it...)...

Hmm... seem to be getting sidetracked...

Anyway, my ex taught this girl how to give a great blowjob.  So, the happy new fundie couple just about got their marriage annulled.  The husband, after receiving such a great blowjob, refused to believe that his new wife had never done it before, and didn't believe that she had learned on a dildo from her cousin a couple of days before.  They fought for days until she finally convinced him (or at least he said he believed her) that she really had been a virgin.  At one point, rumor has it that he even accused her of getting her hymen restored.  How the retard could be so sheltered and know about hymen restoration is still a mystery.

This suggests the fundy husband had had a blowjob at some earlier point himself.  If he'd not had one previously, then how could he have known that she was particularly skilled or not?  Sounds like he should have taken the cock out of his own mouth before casting out the prick out of his wife's.

And for that matter, should fundies be giving and receiving oral sex at all?  If it was illegal in so many states for so long, there's got to be a Biblical principle.  

All I can say is that the whole situation pisses me off.  When I see a young fundy couple, I like to think the dude's getting his rocks off nightly and the woman's a seething cauldron of sexual frustration ready to boil over at any moment.  

But not in a gross way, obviously.

no kudos at 6 when a good issue comes up and i hafta go to work and i post in a hurry my home life is being ruined by my new job lulz

The blowjob thing... some people just find it repulsive. I remember the first time I heard the term in 5th or 6th grade - I asked my mom what it referred to, and she explained it to me. Her personal opinion on it was that it was crude, but she's an atheist, so her opinion is not based on religious laws or anything. And most of my female friends hate doing it as well, but I don't share their sentiments, since I find it enjoyable.

The big debate among my friends in private school was whether or not oral sex counted as sex. The first guy I dated was of the opinion that it did count. (Then he changed his mind, but I also changed my mind & decided I didn't want to do it, hehe). I don't understand the crazy people that won't even kiss before their wedding day. I was never a fundy like that, so even though I remained a virgin throughout high school, I did make out and stuff with guys I dated, so I had some concept of whether or not we were physically compatible. Though now, having achieved a fully developed sex life, I can't imagine abstaining until marriage, since it is a defining aspect of a relationship. 

To make clear, I was actually just joking about the anti-sodomy laws still in place in much of the south.  In my home state, it remains illegal for a married couple to engage in oral sex within the very walls of their own residence.  Obviously this is not enforced, but the sheer ridiculousness of such a law cannot be changed for love or money, being that any attempt to bring it up in the General Assembly would be shouted down with a mighty shout. 

My own experience with fundies and their attitude toward the issue is limited to a single but amusing anecdote.  A dear friend of mine, who is a happily married Dispensationalist Baptist and reader of Greek and Hebrew, was once watching a lowbrow comedy with his wife and myself.  A solitary reference to oral sex (in the film) was enough to make him apologize profusely to his wife.   Again, a fictional character mentioned oral sex in a fictional context.  And he apologized.  There's got to be something more to that.  Simple disgust shouldn't bring that kind of knee jerk revulsion into being.

I'm guessing that you've read enough of my articles and posts to know that I have lots of problems with assuming that the popular conception of something is the correct one.  Thus my insistence of mentioning how inappropriate the term "species" is in many discussions of evolution, etc.   The more I study human sexuality, the less willing I am to put it in a box.  (No pun intended.  Seriously.)  The thing is, a blow job is definitely sexual, but then, so is holding hands at the movie theater. 

Working within my framework, which is that human sexuality is probably the biggest defining cultural force there is, I have trouble watching any human interaction and not seeing the subtle workings of sexuality.

Now that I'm thinking about it, I'm reminded of the recent question regarding when a fetus becomes human.  In a way, I think the question is almost nonsensical.  In the same way, I am not sure that the question of oral sex makes any sense at all.  Sex as a reproductive activity is intercourse.  Simple.  Anything else is "sexual," but not sex.  Sex as a cultural activity is a different matter entirely.  For a lot of people, it boils down to what counts as cheating, but even that isn't a good measure.  Some people (especially those with biblical backgrounds) think that just looking lustfully at someone is cheating.  In the end, if you feel you've been cheated on, it's not about where your partner's genitals have been.  It's about where their mind has been.

Then again, if someone got a blowjob and wondered if they'd had sex, I'd probably say no.  If they had anal sex, I'd say they'd had sex.  But then, once I've admitted that something other than vaginal intercourse is sex, how can I say that anal sex is sex and oral sex isn't?  The mechanics are pretty much the same, after all.

Without any concrete lines of demarcation, I prefer to avoid the word "sex" entirely.  Instead, I say that people "fucked" or "fucked around" or "thumped bunnies" or "played hands in the pants."  Any euphemism to avoid giving a definite answer... cause after all, nobody wants to have to include all their blowjobs in "The Big Number."  We've all seen Clerks.  We're all grownups.  We know.

Now this is a subject that even I can enjoy.  atheist_activist79 I like your picture.  MMM reminds me of the necklace I have hanging off my rear view mirror.