might be getting boyfriend
Posted on: May 15, 2011 - 12:47am
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might be getting boyfriend
so i met this guy when i go out with coworkers a couple weeks ago
he not coworker but we still met on occasions because he friend with coworker
he really nice and cute and around my age and we give number and email and talk there sometime and he ask me to go out next week
the thing i heard that he had 3 ex girlfriends
i excited that i may have a man to control and i will make sure he all mine
but i dont know how far he go and how soon he want pussy
any advice?
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I have not advice sense I know nothing about relationships. All I have to say is good for you. Hope things work out well for you.
I never worried about "getting to know each other before having sex" and I didn't manage to "save" anything for marriage. So I am probably a font of very bad advice.
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Just tell him what will keep you in a comfortable place - preferably before you get on the turps. If you've been by yourself for a while and you need some hugs then adding booze is likely to be a shortcut to bonking or at least snogging. Whatever happens be safe, enjoy.
"Experiments are the only means of knowledge at our disposal. The rest is poetry, imagination." Max Planck
bullshit.
OK out of order but even so:
First, condoms. While safety is obvious, if you want control, make that clear. This is probably not as big a deal as it was before AIDS but even so...
Second, there is no rule about sex on the third (or whatever number) date. If you find that you are on the fortieth date and stuff has not happened, then you have not really controlled the matter. Rather, you have just not put out.
If you want to control him, that is fine. Even so, sooner or later, you will end up being penetrated.
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Yes, go visit one of those wonderful people people who call themselves psychiatrists.....
i miss the days when she tried to prove she was smarter than everybody else by lucid posts, rather than by this hamfisted "i'm going to try to fake everybody into believing i'm a troubled, sexually repressed alcoholic" bit.
she doesn't need a psychiatrist, she just needs to grow out of her angst.
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
My sentiments exactly.
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― Giordano Bruno
That said, if you want to control him, I'd say you shouldn't date anyone until you drop that attitude. Unless you were joking, in which case, ignore that comment.
What's wrong with having sex? If you're ready, go for it!
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Spread em, and when he tells you "it doesn't taste that bad" believe him.
Yes, I am a relationship expert. That and the world will end on Saturday.
(Note to self: Did I think this, or type it?)
In all seriousness. We really cant tell you what to do. Relationships are an individual thing. I can only say not to do anything you don't want to do. And if you do, but are not ready for a kid, wrap it. Other than that, it is nice to be with a like minded person. Take your time, get to know him.
I have been through it all, dating and marriage, and although nice, it can also be a pain in the ass too.
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If you are going in for control..Don't. It'll only end in pain, and usually for your prey. And if you are trying to control and end up getting controlled yourself..well, don't play with fire. Probably only want to have kids just so they will do your dishes and take out the garbage too.
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The bible, good fiction? A 3 year old can write a better story.
Cap, I'll answer you in the spirit of your post.
If you want thing to control that is sure to not be interested in your pussy - buy damn dog.
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this thread is balls.