Why is Homosexuality Still Wrong? (Moved from the Kill 'Em With Kindness forum)
i really hope this is in the right place but i shall go ahead for now.
I dont have a bible handy on me right now , but i am pretty sure that the only ruling agains Homosexuality was in the old testament.
so my question is since you guys and girls keeps aying the old testament rules dont count anymore since jesus sacrficed himself. why is homosexuality seen as wrong?
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Gay couples have 99% of all rights that hetero couples have today;
no no they dont , they ahve alot mroe rights than they used to but not 99% of them all. also some rights are given to them but that doesnt mean they wont be enforcerd such as adoption they have the right to but alot of adoption agencies turn them down , the right to give blood *gays are appranlty filled withd diesase casue the bible says were bad*. and thats jsut afew
I found even various insurance companies will in fact cover your "mate".
a few not all , and i can bet you that its a very small few that do , so a lot of couples still cant get them.
o...other than the federal standpoint what is missing? The title? The paper that says you have the right to be as miserable as anyone else married (haha joke)?
all of the above and some.
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Gay marriage is not about gay rights. It's about what marriage means and marriage is between a man and a woman. It's what marriage has been about since it's inception and saying it needs to "evolove" is not what marriage has done in the past (an example was given to me about the right for a black man and a white woman to marry was allowed in law is not a valid example because it was still in reference to a man and woman pairing).
this is a cop out argument if you ask me. you realize that you have a definition of a civil institution that excludes a particular group for no good reason, and you say, "sorry, that's just how we define it, can't be helped, we can't change it." why not? why can't you change the definition of marriage to be inclusive rather than exclusive? and you've got it backwards. marriage hasn't been defined legally as a man and a woman, which is why states have been scrambling over themselves to define it as such in their constitutions. to say that we can't change the definition of marriage is ridiculous. and it's a deliberate exclusion.
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Lynette1977 wrote:You still have not addressed what I've been saying. Not all cultures subscribe to this but they haven't collapsed. In fact, cultures in which people are less religious and more equal fair better than cultures such as our own. Marriage, historically, wasn't about love or romance but about property hence the reason the early christian church willingly married gay couples without an issue.And in accordance with being a Christian there IS issue...because they didn't follow what the bible states doesn't make it any more right in the eyes of God.
As to the others who posted recently, I've stated before, if society deems it acceptable ON A LEGAL STANDPOINT that gay marriage is allowed, you won't hear any objection from me. Gay couples have 99% of all rights that hetero couples have today; the only one missing really is the federal IRS designation of a married couple. I found even various insurance companies will in fact cover your "mate". So...other than the federal standpoint what is missing? The title? The paper that says you have the right to be as miserable as anyone else married (haha joke)?
You know and I know however that "equality" is based upon perception. I can only speak for myself that I have and would treat anyone I meet as a brother or sister in God since this is what my faith and the bible say.
Until then you'll always vote to put your religion as law, correct? (Excluding people from a legal document because your religion says so)
And I'm sorry, but it's extremely offensive that you would first argue that I don't deserve the same rights... then say I shouldn't want it because it's not a big deal. Which is it?
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Interesting statistics here.
One highlight from the article:
Family issues dominate the current discourse over equal rights for GLBT Americans, specifically whether gay and lesbian couples deserve the same rights and responsbilities afforded to heterosexual couples. According to a U.S. General Accounting Office report, there are over 1,000 federal benefits granted to heterosexual married couples. In 48 states, committed and loving gay and lesbian couples are currently denied access to the great majority of these benefits including, but not limited to, Social Security benefits upon the death of a partner, health care benefits, ability to petition for a partner to immigrate to the United States, the ability to take time off to care for an ill partner, and the ability to file joint tax returns as a married couple.
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Some examples (from this article):
- will not be eligible to share in each other’s social security;
- will be treated as single in all tax matters (particularly consequential after a death) sometimes requiring people to pay high taxes on their own jointly owned homes;
- will have to accept in a lump sum all inherited IRA’s and 401(k)’s, resulting in a huge tax burden;
- will have no access to veteran’s benefits available to spouses of veterans;
- will not have the ability to transfer property at divorce free of tax consequences, thus making it more difficult (and potentially depleting the couple’s assets) to achieve a fair balance of assets;
- will be unable to freely transfer assets to a spouse with no loss of eligibility for public nursing home care.
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also some rights are given to them but that doesnt mean they wont be enforcerd such as adoption they have the right to but alot of adoption agencies turn them down , the right to give blood *gays are appranlty filled withd diesase casue the bible says were bad*. and thats jsut afew
As far as the giving blood that I haven't heard about. Adoption probably deserves it's own thread cause that's an issue onto itself...
a few not all , and i can bet you that its a very small few that do , so a lot of couples still cant get them.
But the point is they exist.
why did god have to change his tactics? why did god have to cater to the time period? why did he use violence when he really didn't find violence to be a good thing? or is violence a good thing? why would a supreme being need to use violence and slavery and genocide to accomplish its ends? why would it need to use those means at all, especially if it preferred nonjudmental love as a means to an end?
Different time, different culture, different rules for men to follow since he knew that was the only way.
Look at us now, we are supposed to use nonjudgemental love yet do we (as a society)?
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
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Until then you'll always vote to put your religion as law, correct? (Excluding people from a legal document because your religion says so)And I'm sorry, but it's extremely offensive that you would first argue that I don't deserve the same rights... then say I shouldn't want it because it's not a big deal. Which is it?
I will vote my conscious. If I believe gay marriage to be immoral but vote for it to change the legal definition, that makes me a hypocrite.
And you didn't read what I wrote. I didn't say you don't deserve the same rights because they exist now with the exception of above noted...
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Gay couples have 99% of all rights that hetero couples have today; the only one missing really is the federal IRS designation of a married couple.
You're not gay and probably don't have a clue WHAT marriage rights straight people get so I'll excuse your statement. But if you want to know what you're keeping people from receiving, Here's the list of over 1138 rights that gay couples are excluded from. Hardly as "trivial" as you make it out to be. Or is that "trivial but you don't need them because my religion says so?"
I was going to post them all here but there are far too many. Please just take the time to understand what you're keeping people from receiving. As you can see, taxes, health care, death benefits, insurance, military benefits, criminal protection, student education, social security, immigration and on and on don't have a damn thing to do with "god's love" that you're claiming. Keeping people from these rights is about self-righteousness, not religion.
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Or is that "trivial but you don't need them because my religion says so?"
Do you want me to respond or are you going to keep twisting my words to something hateful? You swear up and down that I'm preventing you from something when I've told you time and time again if tomorrow they legalize the whole thing it'll be fine by me. DO NOT mistake my faith for your ability to be considered equal under the law.
You want to make me out to be some monster fine you have that freedom to do so but I don't appreciate you saying things that I did not say or mean in the hurtful context you seem to WANT to antagonize me into...
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razorphreak wrote:Gay couples have 99% of all rights that hetero couples have today;
no no they dont , they ahve alot mroe rights than they used to but not 99% of them all. also some rights are given to them but that doesnt mean they wont be enforcerd such as adoption they have the right to but alot of adoption agencies turn them down , the right to give blood *gays are appranlty filled withd diesase casue the bible says were bad*. and thats jsut afew
i can't adopt children where i live, because i'm gay.
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I will make one comment to the issue of gay adoption and that's my opinion of the fear of it being a social/cultural statement. Because also I am the product of a single parent family, I understand very well what was missing from the "other side". There simply has not been enough time to show if two men or two women can effectively provide the man/woman influence that everyone needs for behavior growth. For me this point is a "time will tell" to be honest...
For those of you who don't agree with me, my question would be this: do you think that today's children, products of 50%+ divorce rates, are better or worse than the generations past where divorce rates were half what they are today? Has society progressed for the better or worse and can you not say that parenting had nothing to do with that?
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Juvenile Narcissist wrote:why did god have to change his tactics? why did god have to cater to the time period? why did he use violence when he really didn't find violence to be a good thing? or is violence a good thing? why would a supreme being need to use violence and slavery and genocide to accomplish its ends? why would it need to use those means at all, especially if it preferred nonjudmental love as a means to an end?Different time, different culture, different rules for men to follow since he knew that was the only way.
Look at us now, we are supposed to use nonjudgemental love yet do we (as a society)?
doesn't sound very impressive for a god if it has to pander to the culture, and the "the only way" it could find to meet its ends was through violence, slavery and genocide. i'd expect more from a supreme being. maybe my standards are too high? when i think supreme, i think, well, supreme.
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Lynette1977 wrote:Or is that "trivial but you don't need them because my religion says so?"Do you want me to respond or are you going to keep twisting my words to something hateful? You swear up and down that I'm preventing you from something when I've told you time and time again if tomorrow they legalize the whole thing it'll be fine by me.
but you personally would vote to keep that from happening. i'm not seeing how that can be spun positively. sorry.
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doesn't sound very impressive for a god if it has to pander to the culture, and the "the only way" it could find to meet its ends was through violence, slavery and genocide. i'd expect more from a supreme being. maybe my standards are too high? when i think supreme, i think, well, supreme.
If everything is given to you on a silver platter, how realistic would it be that you will learn humility? The value of what you've been given? Because God gave us with such freedom over our Earthly actions the culture of the time was not aware of God as they should have been nor did the follow his laws. But God still had love and compassion and that's the purpose for Jesus and making it easy to follow. Before Jesus we had no relationship with God hence the extreme number of laws (and by today's standards, extreme in nature as well). Jesus gave us (humans) the ability to restore that relationship which is how we say Christians are not under the old laws...
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I will make one comment to the issue of gay adoption and that's my opinion of the fear of it being a social/cultural statement. Because also I am the product of a single parent family, I understand very well what was missing from the "other side". There simply has not been enough time to show if two men or two women can effectively provide the man/woman influence that everyone needs for behavior growth. For me this point is a "time will tell" to be honest...
For those of you who don't agree with me, my question would be this: do you think that today's children, products of 50%+ divorce rates, are better or worse than the generations past where divorce rates were half what they are today? Has society progressed for the better or worse and can you not say that parenting had nothing to do with that?
what was missing from the "other side"? i'm not the product of divorce, so i don't know. and what does your second paragraph have to do with what kind of parent me and my future partner might be?
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Juvenile Narcissist wrote:doesn't sound very impressive for a god if it has to pander to the culture, and the "the only way" it could find to meet its ends was through violence, slavery and genocide. i'd expect more from a supreme being. maybe my standards are too high? when i think supreme, i think, well, supreme.If everything is given to you on a silver platter, how realistic would it be that you will learn humility? The value of what you've been given? Because God gave us with such freedom over our Earthly actions the culture of the time was not aware of God as they should have been nor did the follow his laws. But God still had love and compassion and that's the purpose for Jesus and making it easy to follow. Before Jesus we had no relationship with God hence the extreme number of laws (and by today's standards, extreme in nature as well). Jesus gave us (humans) the ability to restore that relationship which is how we say Christians are not under the old laws...
the culture of the time was not aware of god as they should have been? he was on their doorstep. shape shifting from bushes to dust clouds to fire pillars. and, yeah, they followed his laws. or they'd be stoned to death. he used fear and intimidation and threat of death to keep the israelites in line. and the other cultures in the area? he just had the isarelites slaughter them all. or take them into slavery. according to your book, these were direct orders. these weren't just ideas the israelites came up with on their own. i'd be wary about having a relationship with such a sadist too. how much reading have you really done in the OT?
and how exactly does being slaughtered teach you humility?
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but you personally would vote to keep that from happening. i'm not seeing how that can be spun positively. sorry.
I have to agree. When one says that "if the people allow it, I'm for it..." I would take that as saying "I'm for allowing gays to marry" but I'm more inclined to believe this is mere doublespeak.
The words "people" who "allow" it would require individuals INCLUDING RAZOR to "vote for it." If he's saying he'd be for it "if the people vote for it" but yet would vote against allowing all couples to enter into government licenses then I find it hard to differentiate between "the people" and YOU. Either you're for equal rights regardless of your religious persuasion or you are not. If you are not and it is based on your religious persuasion then I think one shouldn't make exuses for people when you are one of those very individuals.
It's black and white. Either you are for equal rights or you aren't. "They legalize it" is very vague and I'm thinking that he's purposefully created this shadow to avoid it. Who is THEY? Does THEY include you? If you're OKAY with it if it's legalized then would you vote for or against it? If you're for it, you're for it and you'll vote for "gay" marriage. If you're against it you'll vote against it. I see no point in saying you're against it and you'll vote against it but you're okay if gays get those rights. Why beat around the bush? I'm not twisting words, I'm trying to understand the vagueness of it all.
(I hate the term "gay" marriage because it makes it out to be like it's no longer "marriage" but not it's "gay" marriage. It's just marriage and everyone should have access to those rights).
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this is really interesting. i'm curious how sadam and hitler could potentially be doing god's will by committing horrible acts of murderous violence when, according to razorphreak, god doesn't condone killing people and therefore didn't mean it when he told the israelites to do it in the OT. why would their acts of violence be god's will, but not the acts of the israelites, which god supposedly expressly asked them to perform?
and i'm still waiting to learn how you spiritually stone someone.
Rill
yea I know what the dictionaries say...it's my opinion on it. Sorry should said that...
Reinforcing my position regarding the reliability of scripture in describing a consistent message.
Religions to me have always been the stuff that man puts into place over God.
The texts do, and then the interpreters of the text do it again. Without “stuff” you'd be a pantheist, or a at most deist.
Any organized dogma like Catholism, Baptist, Lutherian, that stuff, those are religions...know what I mean?
Nope. Sounds like an opinion, and not one commonly shared by believers themselves.
The reason my opinion Christanity is not a religion is because of the whole label thing; following the example of Jesus has been and is to me an action, a lifestyle, not what came from man but from God (not going to get into if God exists argument ok!)
You don't have “Jesus” telling you how to behave, you have a text that could have been written by anyone, editing by anyone, altered by anyone, and then your own (or your religious authority's) interpretation. Unless you think you talk to “god,” in which case I'm done here.
To you I evade the question; I have answered the questions in accordance to my faith and according to the bible. If that is what was asked that is how I'll respond.
You keep saying you've already explained things. Where? When? I've been tracking this thread, and you keep saying you're about to, or you've already addressed my questions.
how long should I wait for sugarfree to catch and resolve this self contradiction?
"First, let me state that the OT message is not what I'm going to be referring to because, to a Christian, that law no longer applies thanks to Jesus."
"See this is where you need understanding of the WHOLE message of the bible"
"I do this real moron thing, and it's called thinking. And apparently I'm not a very good American because I like to form my own opinions."
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The Bible labels, doesn't it? Whoremongers, murderers, homosexuals are all labels.
Imo, the biggest problem with the Bible is that everyone interprets it in their own way. If the Bible is supposed to be god's word he should have said it a little more clearly because people base their lives and actions on that book. I know you're going to say that it's not god's problem that people misinterpreted his word, by why isn't it? If he is as all-knowing, all-powerful, etc., shouldn't he have to take responsibility for his word and the actions of his creation? People have been killed for being gay. I'm not necessarily blaming the Bible, I'm blaming the religious doctrine that comes from it (ok, I know that sounds like I'm still blaming the Bible). It's the religious dogma that is so pervasive and that allows the continued discrimination of homosexuals. Hope that makes sense. I'm doing this quickly, sorry.
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You are judging these men of history by human standards and not God's.
Romans 9:14-18 What then shall we say? Is God unjust? Not at all! For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion." It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy. For the Scripture says to Pharaoh: "I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth." Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden.
This goes to re-enforce what I've been saying in that we as humans are NOT the judges of who is saved and who is damned.
I've seen this question before and the short answer has always been a means to an end.
I've read a bunch of different views on the old testament verses that get into a more violent punishment for the sinners and there are two things I'd want to express:
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
What I believe, and this is my faith telling me this (though you might consider it an opinion), is God put ONE interpretation, ONE message, and ONE way to follow and that's the example of Jesus. These people that do what they will is the freedom that God gives us on this planet even though his message is very clear. I've seen it where the message is "not clear" or "misunderstood" however with the gift of faith that God gives it's anything but. Religious dogma perverts the message of God and has left confusion among "churches" but it is not God's fault that has happened (I almost see God hitting his forehead like Bull from the old show "Night Court" in disbelief). In the same breath however, God's will was for this to happen to find out who is obedient to his will and his word. It has to happen this way to find out who believes and who just follows. It's written this way in scripture from the NT and because some believe he doesn't do anything about does not mean his will isn't being done.
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
I think we're coming precariously close to getting off topic (my fault, sorry 'bout that) so let me try to get back on course. I just don't want you to think I'm ignoring your post.
Ok, can you agree that religious dogma creates animosity towards homosexuals, regardless of whether you believe it should or not?
What can be done to change that? Do you think this perception should be changed?
I think I asked you this before in the other thread but then you theists got the boot and you couldn't answer. Do you think that it's fair that because of religious beliefs in this country, there are people who are being denied their rights (i.e. homosexuals being allowed to marry)? If so, why? If not, why?
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Is it off topic to just throw in right here that homosexuality is not morally wrong?
Nope, that's completely on topic. However, try convincing a theist of that. If it weren't for the Bible, etc., homosexuality would not be considered immoral (or bad, or evil, or...)
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Well, I'm glad I ...er, we settled it but just to re-cap:
Homosexuality is not morally wrong, evil, un-natural or sinful. Case closed.
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I think first off the fear and/or hatred of homosexuals comes from men that are not following God's word. Of all the civilzations that have existed in Earth, God's power remained consistant and yet people didn't follow. Society always seemed to want to do it's own thing, just as we see it today, and in every case, such as in Rome, Soddom, Persia, so on, they crumbled because they did not fear God.
Gay marriage is not about gay rights. It's about what marriage means and marriage is between a man and a woman. It's what marriage has been about since it's inception and saying it needs to "evolove" is not what marriage has done in the past (an example was given to me about the right for a black man and a white woman to marry was allowed in law is not a valid example because it was still in reference to a man and woman pairing).
As a Christian, my beliefs are clear from the NT in regard to homosexuality: it is wrong, it is immoral. It is also specific as to what a Christian should do towards a person who considers themself to be homosexual; do not judge. What this means is as a Christian, I do not agree with homosexuality nor do I believe it should be practiced. It also means that I will not hate a person because he/she is gay nor will I tell them they are going to hell because of it. Those who forget God, God will forget them.
Romans 1:21-25 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
Now, last thing I wanted to add here are the rights according to society and to human beings. Because I cannot nor should condemn a homosexual person, I do not agree with laws that make label you a deviant. The hatred that others show to someone who is gay should stop and harsher laws should be enacted to those who do "gay bashing" or other forms of violence.
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
The early church married gay couples for three centuries before eliminating the practice. Marriage (legal) documents in the US didn't start until the 1920's as an act of racism and the church wanted NOTHING to do with it. If you want to call it a marriage, fine, call it the hokey-pokey for all I care, but at least give two people access to a legal document if they so choose and call it a contract but don't deny that marriage was always about just a man and a woman because it wasn't. Maybe you think so in your religion NOW but in many other cultures and early christian tradition it was not.
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Hate to remind you Lynette but marriage was defined well before a "church" began doing it. All over both the old and new testaments, including the accepted 10 commandments, speak of marriage and wives. Even if you don't accept the bible as a gateway into history, Jewish texts as well as Greek and Roman documents also speak of marriage. I'm not talking about it in a church but as it has been documentated throughout history - as man + woman.
Tell me, if society states its ok for civil unions, what then? Won't be good enough? If a gay couple can achieve all the rights except for the tax break of marriage, what would be the need to be married?
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
Yep, marriage was defined WELL before churches stepped into it.
And in ancient Egypt, brothers and sisters could get married! Hmmm, since that tradition is even OLDER, and was "documentated(sic)" then I guess we should allow that too, huh?
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You still have not addressed what I've been saying. Not all cultures subscribe to this but they haven't collapsed. In fact, cultures in which people are less religious and more equal fair better than cultures such as our own. Marriage, historically, wasn't about love or romance but about property hence the reason the early christian church willingly married gay couples without an issue. Our culture gives a child molester, a rapist, a child abuser the right to marry and marry as many times as they would like without question. Claiming that allowing two men or two women the opportunity to marry as societies once did will be the demise of American culture or marriage is an absolute farce. The slippery slope crap that theists use to exclude people is simply non-existent.
"The ancient Hebrews, according to the Old Testament, were polygamous. Cleopatra's Ptolemaic dynasty practiced brother-sister marriage in homage to the Egyptian gods Osiris and Isis. And in some Native American cultures, transgendered women born as biological males — sometimes called berdache — were among the most prized of wives."
You can find a great deal of information here about where it came from. As you'll see, with our culture today, allowing everyone equal access to marriage will harm no one as marriages in our culture today have nothing to do with what they once were: History of Marriage in Western Civilization.
Flemming Rose: “When [christians] say you are not showing respect, I would say: you are not asking for my respect, you are asking for my submission….”
How about equality, plain and simple equality.
What is wrong with treating homosexual couples the same as heterosexual couples? Why does it matter to you, there will not be a requirement for you engage in a homosexual marriage. Let your neighbor marry who they please, share benefits with who they please and lead their lives their own way.
It's not going to be good enough until , same sex couples get every single right a hetro couple gets, if churchs dont want to marry same sex couples thier choice, but their should be an alterntive system that gives them every right , including tax break.
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Ancient texts also speak of a marriage being man + numerous women. And, as someone already pointed out, man + sister, cousin, etc. Using ancient history to bolster your definition of marriage is a bad choice on your part. Many of our "traditions" concerning marriage date back to a time when a bride was kidnapped from a neighboring tribe and forced into matrimony.
They dont need to be married, in a church that is. They deserve every single civil right that everyone else gets, period. Anything else is contradictory to the principles the country claims it was founded on. That stupid argument that gay marriages would lead to people marrying furniture, or marrying all 5 of their daughters is tired and ridiculous. If two(or more, for that matter) people of consenting age both choose to agree to enter into a domestic partnership(what I think all marriages should be called according to the state) then they should be free to do so. Hetero, homo, whatever. However, a better idea would be for the government to remove itself from these matters entirely.
"The powerful have always created false images of the weak."
And in accordance with being a Christian there IS issue...because they didn't follow what the bible states doesn't make it any more right in the eyes of God.
As to the others who posted recently, I've stated before, if society deems it acceptable ON A LEGAL STANDPOINT that gay marriage is allowed, you won't hear any objection from me. Gay couples have 99% of all rights that hetero couples have today; the only one missing really is the federal IRS designation of a married couple. I found even various insurance companies will in fact cover your "mate". So...other than the federal standpoint what is missing? The title? The paper that says you have the right to be as miserable as anyone else married (haha joke)?
You know and I know however that "equality" is based upon perception. I can only speak for myself that I have and would treat anyone I meet as a brother or sister in God since this is what my faith and the bible say.
What is faith? Is it to believe that which is evident? No. It is perfectly evident to my mind that there exists a necessary, eternal, supreme, and intelligent being. This is no matter of faith, but of reason. - Voltaire
no, i was judging them by yours.
I've seen this question before and the short answer has always been a means to an end.
I've read a bunch of different views on the old testament verses that get into a more violent punishment for the sinners and there are two things I'd want to express:
why did god have to change his tactics? why did god have to cater to the time period? why did he use violence when he really didn't find violence to be a good thing? or is violence a good thing? why would a supreme being need to use violence and slavery and genocide to accomplish its ends? why would it need to use those means at all, especially if it preferred nonjudmental love as a means to an end?
Rill