Why not break the cycle?
I have seen discrimination all around. Rather it be in real life, or on internet forums.
There will always be discrimination in the world. Rather it be discrimination based on religion, race or nationality. I see it all the time. Some Christians claim atheists are immoral, some atheists claim Christian are bigots, this only leads to more bigotry on both sides, each side claiming persecution. Of course, some Christians are bigots, and some atheists are immoral, but for either side to generalize the other is nothing less than group think and only contributes to the problem.
In highschool, I was discriminated against because I was a Theist. I was riducled and mocked among other things, for believing in 'fairy tales' and 'a magic sky daddy' (Ironically I went to a catholic school). Luckily I actually had friends at school (who were also Theist and were also mocked). However, guess what? This could have easily made me a bigot against atheists, but no, I refused to generalize all atheists as such. Would you like to know why? Because if I did, then I would be just like them. I would be no better than the ones who mocked me, it is easy to generalize people based on their religious beliefs, however I have learned judge people on a case to case basis. Most of the lessons I learned was from a priest at my church. He taught me to rise above the intolerance and lead by example and he was truely a great man and I'm sure people wouldn't be so bad if there were more people like him. By teaching tolerance, he didn't contribute to the cycle he broke it.
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Quote:Utopias dont exist and I am against any attempt via goverment to opress the views of people who dont like me. They dont have to like me and the laws are already in place that say they cant have me arrested or kill me merely because they dont like me.I made no reference to laws, thought police, violence or any such thing. My point was simple.
To tell those that are anti-theism that they should just tolerate theism and live and let live is no different than telling those that are anti-racism that they should just tolerate racism and live and let live.
I wouldn't kill a KKK memeber or try and legislate away his right to be racist (without harming others in the process), but I do not have to tolerate hi ideology and speaking against his ideology, even with ridicule, is not being intolerant. I can speak out against it to the best of my ability and attempt to disuade others from becoming a part of his societally detrimental system.
I am sorry if I missunderstood.
My fear is putting individual's thoughts in the hands of government.
There was a letter from Jefferson to Adams where Jefferson scoffed at Adam's complaints in a previous letter that people didn't "respect" their ellected officials and that they shouldnt be allowed to say such "offensive" things.
Jefferson basically said to Adams, "Listen you moron(he put it more politely) Listen, the King was saying the same thing about us when we criticised and ridiculed him, now you want to do the same thing to our citizens that he did to us in demanding our silence and obediance?"
Jefferson said that he herd it all aimed at him too, but it is far better to let people vent than to put their thoughts in the hands of a goverment that may not always agree with an individual.
So if your issue is merely improving relationships through the free market of ideas and free speech thats great. My issue has never been the "intent" of the "get allong" people. My issue has always been tactic used and it is a bad idea to make laws that attempt to become the repacement for an individual's thoughts.
"We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus -- and nonbelievers."Obama
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You were... ridiculed for being a theist?
Yes.
Where did you go to school at? What part of the world/country?
Canada
I'm starting to agree. Probably not in the manner you think though.
Segregation based upon ideology sounds really good today. That would 'break the cycle'.
Segregation based upon race is patently stupid, but based on ideology.... I'm not so sure. Bloods and Crips, Republicans and Democrats, Red state/Blue State, North Korea South Korea. Hmmmm.
Oh. My bad. They tried that before elsewhere and the jesus freaks sent little tiny bibles smuggled inside of coffee shipments and whatnot didn't they.
I suppose the question I have is: Who is supposed to leave whom alone? Really. Who is guilty in the 'evangelism wars' in the respective ideologies? I want to know.
In the mind of the average theist, could they NOT allow their ideology to affect their interpersonal relations? 95% of the time in RL I have to be asked whether I am a believer or not when I initiate a conversation with someone. In the first three minutes talking about the damned weather, I can tell you if a person is a believer or not.
I'm sincerely glad that you aren't basing your perception of atheism on the atheists in your school in Canada. I truly wish it were that easy to do with regard to theists in America.
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The weird part is that Canada is ~77% Christian, so I was surprised to find so many atheists at my school.
As any other user who lives in Canada or has visited Canada can atest to, Canada is a very good country to live in. The people are generally very friendly and easy going regardless of their beliefs. But I guess every high school has it's problem.
Cpt_pineapple what a nice idea, unfortunately are brains run a hardwired program called spot the difference, this cannot be stopped best you can hope for, is to realize this is part of your psyche, and from that point try to adjust your behavior,
Religion or rather the Ideology of religion adds another layer of spot the difference/discrimination, to your psyche
Although it could be argued that atheism is an ideology, it would be more appropriate to describe atheism as the ideology you were born with
Cpt_pineapple ? do you believe that adding more ideologies will increase or decrease tolerance in our society
If it's neurological, doesn't that mean EVERYONE regardless of religion can fall for it?
Doesn't matter. People will always be different hence the 'spot the difference' psyche will always be lurking
Think about this. What if someone wants to believe, but can't because of ridicule? People will always believe, let them as long as it is withing civil rights.
77 percent say they are christians. For family reasons, friends etc, however in high school that's a different scene all together. Many of the Catholics schools is where we went to get some of the best weeds and the slutiest (is this a word?) girls during HS.
If someone can't take ridicule they might want to grow up a little bit. Honestly though if the belief is not worth ridicule then it wouldn't be ridiculed. Now if you don't think its worth ridicule or you know what they think doesn't really effect you then what are you worried about?
BTW you contradict yourself up there. "Someone wants to believe, but can't" and "people will always believe." If people will always believe then ridicule shouldn't have an effect. Discussion of ideas even attacking them is a part of free speech. I'd hope it would be done with logic arguments, but its not like we take a 'how to argue effectively 101.' Honestly I don't see how talking will physically stop someone. Do you think its bad that people get called on things other people see as irrational? If someone wants to talk about god take to'em.
With the school though there could have been all sorts of things going on. Maybe you rubbed them the wrong way one day without realizing it or they just got out of religion and vented. Maybe they saw you somehow connected to the authority figures of the school, it been catholic. What this has to do with today I'm not sure. Its not like we can't find cases of christians picking on atheists and the atheist not turning into a bigot as you call it. Are you suggesting the discussion stop because it effects people's beliefs?
You can have a rational discussion without ridicule.
That is not a condraticion. What if someone wanted to be open to their believes but can't?
My point is intolerance breeds intolerance
Which is my point. Intolerance breeds intolerance. I thought I made that clear. People can rise above intolerance regardless of their religion
/facepalm. See first point.
Being ridiculed doesn't take away someone's right to be open with their beliefs. It takes away their right to expect to express ridiculous ideas without being ridiculed for it. Freedom of speech protects your right to say stupid things and my right to tell you that what you're saying is stupid.
Oh, a lesson in not changing history from Mr. I'm-My-Own-Grandpa!
In my experience, nothing will turn a teenager into an atheist more effectively than being sent to a catholic high school
Oh, a lesson in not changing history from Mr. I'm-My-Own-Grandpa!
So? As you said it cuts both ways.
Claims shouldnt get respect "just because". You claim it, you back it up. Thats how you get respect for that claim. But that is a seperate issue than weither or not the person claiming it is good or bad.
There are two seperate issues.
1. The person
2. The claim a person makes
"Cant we all just get along" I AGREE WITH!
But at the same time you cannot physically rearrange the neurons in someone's head and force them to never say things thaty "may" offend you.
I dont bash Christians who understand that their Bible is not public law. I may ridicule their claims or your claims am and under no obligation to respect a claim simply because someone utters it.
I do have to respect someone's right to believe something I find absurd, but that doesnt equate me to being a bigot anymore than claiming all Christians hate me because they think my atheism is absurd.
I may like and value an individual but not not always find everything they claim, because I like them, as always being credible merely because I like them.
I can like a person and still find some claim they make ON ANY ISSUE, to be absurd.
Some people for example find me being a fan of the NFL absurd, but that doesnt make them hatefull to ALL NFL fans or want to opress NFL fans.
I find claims of pantheism, disimbodied brians, supernatural omni-gods as being the same catigory as Harry Potter. That doesnt make me a bigot.
I do however HATE people who think it is their job to hijack goverment and base everyone's law on their particular holy book and I could care less weither we are talking about America or Iran.
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But you can't be truly tolerant unless you tolerate intolerance.
There has to be a point at which you stake your stand or else you reduce your own position to absurdity. Many of those who oppose theism do so because they think it to be the most morally relevant place to make their stand. If one sees theism as a means to justify intolerance then to not oppose it would be no better than to not oppose racism.
“Philosophers have argued for centuries about how many angels can dance on the head of a pin, but materialists have always known it depends on whether they are jitterbugging or dancing cheek to cheek" -- Tom Robbins
Not sure what you are saying here.
I appose racism and bigotry. But even more importaint I value human nature and am rational enough not to try to force some utopia on others who may not agree with me or like me.
It is in human nature to express emotion and to deny emotion is to set yourself up to explode. No one should deny their emotions, but recognize them and take personal responsibility for controling them.
I dont want to live under a goverment that thinks it is their right to try and re arrange the neurons in my brain. Creating a more harmonious society should not come at the cost of playing thought police.
I dont like it when Christian politicians claim what I should believe or like and claim so I wont do that to them either.
We dont like their utopias forced on us so we should refrain from trying to force a PC utopia on them.
I hate polliticall correctness via goverment force. People have to change themselves and it is best suited when a person doesnt feel like they are being forced to change.
This has nothing to do with "there is no good reason to be a bigot" That is a no duh.
This has to do with what kind of goverment we as citizens want to live under. I dont want some buerocrat or politician telling me what I can or cannot say or who I have to like. AND NEITHER DO THEY!
What we can do is use our own voices to combat the needless division and bigotry. But what no one should want is a goverment full of thought police.
Iran's goverment is full of "thought police". Hitler's government was full of "thought police".
Getting along should not incorperate denying people their emotions or thoughts. Getting along amounts to agreeing not to physically harm your neighbor. No one has the right to tell me who to like and I am damned sure not going to let any Republican, Democrat, atheist or Christian tell me what my thoughts are or who to like.
I can agree to no harming you physically. But I dont have to like you nor am I obligated to like everything you claim and I am allowed to express that via the First Amendment.
Utopias dont exist and I am against any attempt via goverment to opress the views of people who dont like me. They dont have to like me and the laws are already in place that say they cant have me arrested or kill me merely because they dont like me.
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Lets put asside religion for a second and think about personal relationships with individuals. Lets say a family member or friend or co-worker makes an absurd claim ON ANY ISSUE.
Are they your friend if you cant be openly honest with them?
I am quite sure that both theists and atheists reading this have had a situation where someone they like has said something the other found to be absurd and said, 'Thats rediculous"
Does that mean they hate the person? Or merely find the claim absurd?
I have had family members and friend in my past say to me on a given claim "That is rediculous Brian". My response to them is not "YOU HATE ME" but, "Ok, why do you say that?"
Why should any religion, be it scientology or Islam or Christianity get a pass just because?
It is lack of blasphemey and blind faith that allows indoctrinated people to slam planes into buildings and burn witches.
I am willing to be friends with people who believe absurd things. I am unwilling to have a relationship with someone who wont let me be honest with them.
I can like someone but not like everything they claim or believe. And I sure as hell dont want to live under a goverment of pollitically correct thought police.
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I made no reference to laws, thought police, violence or any such thing. My point was simple.
To tell those that are anti-theism that they should just tolerate theism and live and let live is no different than telling those that are anti-racism that they should just tolerate racism and live and let live.
I wouldn't kill a KKK memeber or try and legislate away his right to be racist (without harming others in the process), but I do not have to tolerate hi ideology and speaking against his ideology, even with ridicule, is not being intolerant. I can speak out against it to the best of my ability and attempt to disuade others from becoming a part of his societally detrimental system.
“Philosophers have argued for centuries about how many angels can dance on the head of a pin, but materialists have always known it depends on whether they are jitterbugging or dancing cheek to cheek" -- Tom Robbins