How often do you think about religion/ your atheism?

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How often do you think about religion/ your atheism?

Just out of curiosity, how often do you guys think about religion or your atheism, or something dealing with it? Personally, I think about it very often, many times a day in fact. Then again, I'm in the middle of the biblebelt and am surrounded by xtian fundies.


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I think that asking on this

I think that asking on this board is going to result in a heavy bias towards people who think about religion and/or atheism a lot.


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You know, I never used to

You know, I never used to think about it when I was a deist. I wouldn't even notice if someone's home or office was littered with xtian paraphernalia because it didn't really matter to me. Now that I have rejected those beliefs and see these things all around me almost all the time, religion and atheism seem to constantly be at the forefront of my attention.

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Fish wrote: I think that

Fish wrote:
I think that asking on this board is going to result in a heavy bias towards people who think about religion and/or atheism a lot.

 

Thats what I'm expecting, I just wanted to see. Smiling 


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Safe to say at least once a

Safe to say at least once a day, usually while listening to the news...


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Everytime I see something

Everytime I see something religious


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My parents are fundies, and

My parents are fundies, and I live with them, so I think of it often.  I'm constantly having to bite my tongue around them to avoid fighting. 


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I think about it every time

I think about it every time a religious person brings up god; so, I think about it several times a day.

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I only think about religion

I only think about religion and my lack thereof when I'm awake. All the rest of the time, I'm good to go.


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Well

Every damn day, usally several times.


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I think of my lack of belief

I think of my lack of belief everytime I hear or see something religious... Everytime I hear a sneeze and someone say "bless you"... Everytime I hear a woman coo at a little baby and proclaim"Oh what a blessing"... Everytime I am in line at Borders books and the person in front of me is buying a christian self-help book... Everytime I hear a news story about someone killing because "god told me to"... Everytime I see a bumper sticker with a message like "I Heart JC" or that god-damned jesus fish... Everytime I read an article about prayer in school...I could go on and on and on...i stop and think about how religion/belief/gods pop up every single day in my life and how my first instinct upon being exposed to those things is to raise my eyebrows in disbelief and even in some cases stifle a giggle. Thank god for Religion to help me think rationally! <-- sarcasm

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How often do I think about

How often do I think about it? All the damned time. How often do I speak about it? Not as much as I'd like to. I need to keep my job, and stirring up shit with fellow employees threatens that. I like to intercept when I can, though. Like one time, this ecstatic new guy in the store sparked a debate of communism vs. democracy on his first day. That was a fun opportunity Wink


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Every day, several times a

Every day, several times a day. I often find myself wondering how anyone can believe in what they do. I find myself wondering how people can make the claim that children believe in god when I didn't. I find myself wondering how people can make biggoted claims and take harsh, extremist actions... all in the name of a god.


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I think I get a daily

I think I get a daily "Another miracle from god" or "Christians need to finally stand up and let our voices be heard on this issue" email from my family... if not more than one.  I spend a good chunk of my day mentally refuting the crap that gets sent my way and trying to work up the courage to finally out myself as an atheist to my South Georgia conservative Christian family.  I honesly think this would be easier to do with them if I were gay.  They'd at least be glad that I hadn't given up Christianity.

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You know those surveys in

You know those surveys in womens mags, like cosmo, that ask men how many times they think about sex and the answer turns out to be some insanely high number that makes you wonder when they find time to sleep or eat?  That's my answer.


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I'm an apostate Christian

I'm an apostate Christian who already had a theology degree and is now a philosophy student at the University of Louisville, so admittedly I am thinking about it all the time and I realize it would be a higher number than the average person.


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Most of the hours that i'm

Most of the hours that i'm awake.


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kellym78 wrote: I only

kellym78 wrote:
I only think about religion and my lack thereof when I'm awake. All the rest of the time, I'm good to go.

Yeah same here...  I suspect that will be the case till religion is gone, or im dead.  I would like to think the former would happen first. 


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Everytime that I talk to my

Everytime that I talk to my mother, who is so completely saturated with god belief that she can not finish a sentence without mentioning god or the bible.

Every time she utters a sentence starting with "The bible says..." as if that is the end all clincher for all logic and opinions on anything.

Everytime she attributes anything good to god and everything bad to a mysterious "plan of god's wisdom".

Everytime I hear a fundy attacking science like evolution as if it is some holy mission of the highest good.

Every time some christian pounds away on their science based computer talking about science being full of shit.

Everytime I see people that have religious bullshit laying all over their cubicles/offices.

Every time I see religious bumper stickers on their cars. 

Gah, I'm getting enraged right now.  I'm going to go calm down.

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Rarely. Sometimes I forget I'm an atheist.


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rzubak wrote: I think of my

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I think of my lack of belief everytime I hear or see something religious... Everytime I hear a sneeze and someone say "bless you"
I will often say, "Bless you" as will do my family and friends even though none of us are remotely religious.  I have no doubt that we say that phrase just as much as we would utter, "oops a daisy" as a I or a small child would trip up.  I think it is dependent on the social environment in which it is uttered and the people that are present.

 Language evolves and more often than not it's origin is lost, but the "general meaning" is retained and that is not always a religious one. 

And I'll continue, rightly or wrongly, to say that a sneeze is something that everyone experiences at some point and so cultural practices that are long determined prevail. 

 I wonder why breaking wind is not followed by a "Bless you".

 


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as I deist, I think about it

as I deist, I think about it sometimes. but usually, I don't care unless someone gets in my face.  I live in a really liberal part of the country so I'm lucky that it's not in my face a lot.  I don't like it when people are too obsessed either way. it creeps me out.


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Watcher wrote:

Watcher wrote:

Everytime that I talk to my mother, who is so completely saturated with god belief that she can not finish a sentence without mentioning god or the bible.

Every time she utters a sentence starting with "The bible says..." as if that is the end all clincher for all logic and opinions on anything.

Everytime she attributes anything good to god and everything bad to a mysterious "plan of god's wisdom".

Everytime I hear a fundy attacking science like evolution as if it is some holy mission of the highest good.

Every time some christian pounds away on their science based computer talking about science being full of shit.

Everytime I see people that have religious bullshit laying all over their cubicles/offices.

Every time I see religious bumper stickers on their cars.

Gah, I'm getting enraged right now. I'm going to go calm down.

Dude, you sound like you're about where I am now. I've come to realize the environment I'm in is a contributing factor to my own unhappiness. Unfortunately, the U.S. is experiencing a national religious insanity episode. Sad

The first thing I need to do is remove myself from the environment where I was raised / brainwashed. Every time I pass certain areas of town / countryside I have flashbacks. The flashbacks include both good and bad memories, but at this point both make me feel like crying.  I grieve over the loss of the good and ache over the pain of the bad.  The insidious thing about abuse is that abusers of any stripe are usually not always or even usually abusive. They are good / kind most of the time, then something goes wrong. I think that dichotomy is even harder to deal with than someone who is purely evil.

The other confusing element is that religion makes people do things they wouldn't otherwise do. So, you have this group of people you love who sometimes do batshit insane things. It's enough to make you feel crazy.

Step 2 is to move somewhere less religious. That one's gonna be harder...

Step 3 (which I can work on while I recuperate) is to fully support organizations out to expose religion. I think much of the older generation is a lost cause, but if we can intervene before kids are totally brainwashed, there's a chance for them.

Mostly, I want to be there for people leaving their religion. No one was there for me and that has to change.

 

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HumanisticJones wrote: I

HumanisticJones wrote:
I think I get a daily "Another miracle from god" or "Christians need to finally stand up and let our voices be heard on this issue" email from my family... if not more than one. I spend a good chunk of my day mentally refuting the crap that gets sent my way and trying to work up the courage to finally out myself as an atheist to my South Georgia conservative Christian family. I honesly think this would be easier to do with them if I were gay. They'd at least be glad that I hadn't given up Christianity.

Yup, it's hard.  

Even if you stop living a lie, you have to face what telling the truth brings and in this situation, it's usually a long-lasting shitstorm...probably a lifelong shitstorm.

I thought things were getting better.  I really did.  I thought my mother and I had learned to live without bringing up religion, politics or anything interesting.

Yeah, I really mean that.  My mother is so narrow-minded I can't talk about anything that interests me without pissing her off.  Things that interest me--science, evolution, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, the fact my parrot is probably descended from dromaesaurids--all threaten her faith.  My recent artwork is usually based on some cool evolutionary find.  The only thing I could talk about freely was music, but I lost my scholarship and my classes.  Also, my mother is completely tone deaf and has stated she doesn't really like music all that much. 

There is no common ground.

Nature and animal life greatly interest me, but I can't curb my enthusiasm and usually spout off about the latest fossil find or some really neat thing I learned about evolution.  I can't help but insert some statistic about how closely related certain species are.  Did you know that we are more closely related to chimpanzees than alligators are to crocodiles?  In fact, we're so closely related, some scientists have pushed to have humans, bonobos and chimps places in the same genus.

So, everything fell apart again.

This is just a warning to folks who decide to out themselves.  Don't expect your parents' professed "unconditional love" to hold if you leave the faith and start talking about things that interest you. 

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kellym78 wrote: I only

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I only think about religion and my lack thereof when I'm awake. All the rest of the time, I'm good to go.

I bet you dream about it, too. Eye-wink 

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i'm constantly surrounded by

i'm constantly surrounded by christians and christainity so I'd say pretty much constantly. Most of the time I want to say something but know it's probably best not to, like today when a  guy at work was going on about how last night at prayer meeting they were praying for his arm and then it grew 3cm in front of them and some other woman's leg also grew.What can you do with people like that?

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I kind of see the OP as two

I kind of see the OP as two separate questions.

To question 1, how often do I think about my atheism, I would answer almost never. The reason for this is that I have spent a great deal of time in the past thinking about my atheism. I went from never thinking about it as a child, to noticing that it was something of a societal abnormality and thinking about it quite a bit, to realizing that there is no evidence or persuasive supporting argumentation to supprt acquiring a god belief. I am now at the point where, unless confronted with somke new line of thought (which seems beyond scarce in this particular area), I see no reason to think much about it.

The answer to question 2, how often do I think about religion, is very often. I think about religion from a removed perspective considering the beneficial/detrimental effect it has on society and trying to understand why people believe, and what it is exactly that they think they believe in, so that I might be able to show them how removing the responsibility for humanity from humanity is not a good idea and how their belief (if they actually can state what it is they think they believe in) is unfounded, if not completely illusory.

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Not sure exactly what you

Not sure exactly what you meant, and as Vessel pointed out, it could be taken different ways.

As far as thinking about why I'm an atheist, I won't bother thinking about that again until I see a new theist argument. I haven't seen one of those since I became an atheist.

I'm constantly reminded of the second-class citizenship that results from being an atheist. It's strange for a day to go by when I don't have to hold my tongue, or politely decline to indulge in some religious nonsense or another.

As I look back over my professional life, I realize that if I were in a race or gender minority, I could have won millions of dollars in discrimination lawsuits.

Several years ago, I was advised by my lawyer to drop a lawsuit against a doctor who knowingly and willingly disregarded the DNR (Do Not Resuscitate order) on my father, who had been a vegetable for close to ten years, with no hope of recovery. He did this because he was an evangelical Christian. He said so on record. Yet, I had to drop the suit because all the judges in the city are known to be Christians and sympathetic to Christian causes. I was informed that the media would "crucify me" if I proceeded.

For well over a decade, it has been a constant hum in the background of my life. The only time I get a break is when I leave the country. How awful is that?

 

 

 

 

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I wish I could say that

I wish I could say that only occasionally I have to think about religion/my atheism, but everytime I read a newspaper, watch tv, or heck, even drive around town I am reminded.  Between the churches on every street corner and the obnoxious bumperstickers as well as the craptastic presidential debates, I am reminded every damn day.  It's like a bad case of diahrrea you just can't get rid of.

When my step-daughter visited this summer I was reminded when she told me quite gleefully that I would be going to hell because I didn't believe in jeebuz.  I wish I could have told her that I would probably see her mother there anyways, but I bit my toungue cause it's what you have to do. Children just don't know any better. 

Like when my neighbor scolded me for scaring off the little mormon boys that like to darken my doorstep very early in the morning.  I was told I should be more tolerant and that it was very rude of me to ask them if they enjoyed pimping for jeebuz, but hey, I figure if you are going to wake me up that early don't expect unicorns pissing rainbows.

So I would say every single day I am reminded.  I'm pretty sure the only break I'll ever get is if I go blind, deaf, or die. 

  

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