One small example of why hating religion is not just a hobby for me, but a full-time job.

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One small example of why hating religion is not just a hobby for me, but a full-time job.

Now that I have your attention, I'd like to ask for advice.  "God Stole My Friends" has been a recurring theme in my life and it's happening again.  I have some new information concerning a friendship I thought was dead a few months ago.  I'm very emotional about the whole thing, so I'm not sure what I should do.  Right now I'm mulling it over.

If you care to pipe in, please do so in this thread: http://tinyurl.com/2ju7ly <--clickety click

I could use some input.

Thanks!

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so I'm not sure what I

so I'm not sure what I should do.

Move. 

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I just now noticed the

I just now noticed the dates on your posts. After 3 months her boyfriend sends you a email? What the...? I can only guess what is happening between her and her bf and your guess is better than mine.

All I can say is wait

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AiiA wrote: I just now

AiiA wrote:

I just now noticed the dates on your posts. After 3 months her boyfriend sends you a email? What the...? I can only guess what is happening between her and her bf and your guess is better than mine.

All I can say is wait

He wants me to try to call her again.   I really don't want to.  I already tried to e-mail her.  I already called her.  I've already contacted her a Brazilian™ times.  During the past month I have been making my peace with the end of the friendship.  Now her boyfriend writes me and tells me this shit.  What am I supposed to do?

On the one hand, I don't like that she's miserable (and possibly suicidal); on the other hand, I'm really tired of this shit.  I went through my own private hell when she wouldn't talk to me, then went through a little more hell when I realized she wasn't going to talk to me.  I would rather not subject myself to more of that. 

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deludedgod wrote: so I'm

deludedgod wrote:

so I'm not sure what I should do.

Move.

I would love to, deludedgod, but I don't have the funds or the necessary energy.  I need help just to function in my day-to-day life.  At some point I'd like to troubleshoot this with someone I can trust to see if there's an answer that has eluded me.  I thought about explaining the situation here, but I'm a little gun-shy when it comes to my health problems.

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Iruka Naminori

Iruka Naminori wrote:
deludedgod wrote:

so I'm not sure what I should do.

Move.

I would love to, deludedgod, but I don't have the funds or the necessary energy. I need help just to function in my day-to-day life. At some point I'd like to troubleshoot this with someone I can trust to see if there's an answer that has eluded me. I thought about explaining the situation here, but I'm a little gun-shy when it comes to my health problems.

 It's easier said than done, for sure, but I agree with Deludedgod.  The environment you're in seems to create nothing but conflict for you.  I would hazard a guess that you feel alone quite often.  Maybe not move across country, but at least to a fresh area that is less fundy-ridden?  Cali is a big place!  Of course, there seems to be a big chunk of important info(your health issues) that could certainly throw a wrench into your plans.  But without knowing what the problem is, its kinda hard to advise.

 

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