Letter to a Christian Father
I wouldn't say I'm quite at Sam Harris' level, but it's appropriate. I recently called my father, a long time member and elder of a highly intellectual church, and let him know that I didn't believe in god. We had a good long discussion, and agreed to continue the discussion through email. A few days later I received a letter from him detailing reasons he believes in god, and asked if I minded if he got more people involved. I replied after a couple days and accepted his offer to include others, but it's been almost 2 weeks since I've anything heard from him. So, bored with waiting for his reply I've decided to let you all in on the discussion!
There's no personal information in these, and if there was I'd be sure to delete it.
My father (Call him Ed) wrote:
Science is no substitute for GodScience, broadly understood, is a set of tools used to aid in understanding the world in which we live. It is intended and rather good at answering “how” something happened or came about, but it is entirely incapable of answering “why.” One version of this question is to follow a chain of cause-and-effect back to the original cause that can be identified, only to be asked what caused that?
The real issue is that the scientific method is about the physical, not the metaphysical. It does not answer questions of meaning, and must leave such questions unanswered. If it tries to answer such questions the answers cannot be evaluated. For example, for a physicist who has spent his lifetime studying the cosmos to say that there is no god is simple to say he hasn’t seen one. Does that truly mean that there is none? That is like saying that if I close my eyes the room around me does not exist. He may try to say he finds no evidence for the existence of a god, but that doesn’t move the issue at all. What evidence would he accept?
This does not make the questions of meaning go away, however, because without meaning science is pointless. To argue that you are curious and so you investigate is not enough. Why is there funding for science, why is there a society where scientific investigation is considered useful? Why get up in the morning? Why battle through illness? Why eat? Why help other people?
This is where all non-theistic views fail. If you claim there is not a God who gives meaning to the world and its inhabitants then you are saying there is no meaning. To try to reduce human life to likes and dislikes, animal behavior taken to a more refined level, is to ignore much of life and what makes it livable. Some people reduce life to a matter of preferences, but that only goes so far.
An important point at which many people feel that a theistic view of the world is intellectually unsatisfying is that physical evidence seems to be at odds with religious explanations. This is a red herring, because the question of why is not answered by investigating how something occurred. Whatever mechanism God used to create the world, if God created it then He has claim, etc. But keep in mind that there can be different interpretations to any particular physical evidence.
The value of a theory is in its explanatory power. The theory of evolution has much explanatory power, and so it is used extensively in evaluating the relationships between physical evidence of all sorts. This does not mean there is no God. It only means the theory is useful in helping us understand how things relate. It can neither say there was a creator nor that there wasn’t a creator. It cannot speak to “first causes” or answer the question of meaning. Incidentally, it has a serious weakness in that the plethora of links that Darwin said should turn up is largely missing. Is the theory true? We cannot know one way or the other for certain. But even if it is a largely accurate description of how life developed that does not answer why life came to be here and how we should live. Such questions are beyond the scope of scientific investigation.
When scientists try to answer such questions using the tools of science they err. They are free to try to convert others to their faith in “no god” but they are speaking not from evidence but from opinion. Their religion is only possible by borrowing the view that the world has meaning from metaphysics, and pretending to have discovered some basis for this in their investigations.
and then I said:
Science is no substitute for a god. Science doesn’t seek to replace gods, though many try to artificially conflate the two. Science is a tool for describing the observable world, and as such can not, in the normal course of things, ever disprove a god. On the other hand, given a few significant miracles (I believe the regrowing of amputated human limbs independent of medical science’s intervention is one commonly cited example of a sufficiently improbably miracle for proof), science would consider a god provable. The crux here is that it is virtually impossible to prove a negative. Bertrand Russell used the example of a teapot orbiting the sun too closely to ever be seen by any device ever made or to be made – we have no way of proving that the teapot is there or isn’t, but the default position should be that there is no teapot until there is some evidence otherwise.Now, speaking of conflating independent ideas, we have the issue of god and meaning. There is no reason to believe that meaning is dependent on the existence of god. Granted, Christianity (to which I will primarily respond, not being too familiar with many other religions) makes a point of claiming that all purpose and meaning depend on and flow from god, but there is no evidence of that aside from the various books of the bible – cobbled together from written work of different authors over several thousand years and occasionally adapted to culture at the time – claiming god as the center of purpose. If, instead, we stop and think what life would be like if meaning and morality were a function of society, particularly immediately inherited (socially inherited, not biologically) morals and thought patterns, then we find that this scenario compares very closely to reality.
Now, I’m afraid I’m going to have to be fairly unyielding on the subject of evolution. I am not an evolutionary biologist – or indeed a scientist at all in any practical way – so I do not have a complete knowledge of the subject, and I will likely never (ever) be in a position to claim anything of the kind, no matter how long I study. That being said (typed?), I also have to say that there is no question as to whether humans, and indeed all life as we know it here no earth, are the continuingly evolving products of evolution. Now, that being said, I’ll also say that you are right. The theory of evolution does not, can not, and does not try to disprove god. The theory of evolution concerns itself with interpreting the continuingly accumulating facts in order to fine tune itself – nothing about it is immutable. However, there is no need or indeed room in the theory to postulate divine intervention. The claim god made evolution happen has no bearing on or relationship to the facts. Once again, though we can never say that we won’t ever find evidence of a theistic jump-start somewhere, but the probability is so absurdly small that we can confidently discount that idea along with the idea that the world is supported on the back of 4 elephants and one giant tortoise.
The final point to which I wanted to respond was the idea that I, or anyone who has thought about this in depth, has faith that there is no god. This is incorrect. Intellectual honesty compels me to say that there is nothing with a probability of 1 or 0. Everything is somewhere along those lines, including the probability that this is all just a figment of your imagination. I would put that idea somewhere very close to the 0 probability, but I personally can come up with no proof that you aren’t just imagining the whole thing. On the other hand, I can’t say for 100% that every time I drop a plate it will fall. I could do once a minute for my entire life and have it fall every time, but there can never be surety that some day, or the next time, it won’t hover for a few seconds. For the intents and purposes of Reality, I think we can be comfortable that the probability that it will fall is close enough to 1 that it makes no difference. Now, given a the lack of physical evidence that there ever was, or ever needed to be a god, I and many others would put the probability that he exists very close to 0, but we can never know for sure that there isn’t one. We are forced to be technically agnostic about the existence of god. However, we can be confident enough that we don’t believe in a god – as opposed to believing there is no god. It’s a bit of a subtle distinction, but we have to use the full depth of precision available in English for such an important subject. If I believed there was no god, then you have good cause to question my other thought processes for other logical inconsistencies. That is not the case. I don’t believe that there is a god; I have no faith in the existence of god. The idea that scientists are working by faith to convert others is a straw-man. No good scientist will try to “convert” anyone, but may try to convince them that a hypothesis is true or untrue based on reproducible, falsifiable evidence.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
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This is great Mazid. I'm glad you were able to approach the subject as I know it wasn't one you were comfortable with. I'm also immensely jealous that you're able to have this kind of a conversation with your father.
It's going to take me a while to come up with a response to this, but only because there are so many points to address. And yes, I can address them all.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Here's what I'm about to send him - he's coming over this weekend for a visit, so I'll see if he wants to forgo the drama for a little while.
Sorry for the brick wall, but that's how he's getting it too.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
It's interesting to watch theists grapple with "meaning". As an atheist, I believe we are here because of a series of random events stretching back billions of years. And I'm completely fine with that. I don't believe life has any particular inherent meaning. The meaning that life has is what we make of it. It doesn't come from a God or anything else.
Nobody I know was brainwashed into being an atheist.
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He is probably referring to 20th-century applications of Marxism (which ended up being updated forms of totalitarianism, somehow). I have read several stories from the Iron Curtain era in Eastern Europe, and it is evident that Communist government officials and their pundits (the ones who actually believed in that system, that is) believed that a lack of existence of God gave them license to do whatever they wished. Of course, we imagine that Karl Marx himself, who advocated atheism in his vision of society, would have in no way approved of his interpreters.
Regardless, the attitudes expressed in governments who enforce atheism today (whether directly or indirectly by quietly opposing the activity of religions) are those which Christians react against, assuming that atheism naturally results in amorality and poor government. Also Christians conclude that atheism, when accepted as part of one's philosophy and ethics, results in God's disfavor and withholding of blessing. Another reason Christians react against atheism as part of one's ethics is the sort of bleak worldviews that sometimes arise from concluding there is no god (such as Sartre's existentialism).
Of course, none of these things are necessary to naturalism (a term which I think describes the usual philosophy of a non-theist). Certainly no non-theist here thinks that their lack of belief in God has driven them to commit atrocities as Stalin did. No one here if put in charge of North Korea would, like Kim Jong Il who also doesn't believe in God, starve the nation in order that they may spend all their money on building a useless military. I think that one may look to one's social upbringing to explain why a usual American atheist would more likely feel that such things are so unjust that they are hard to really grasp as actually happening, given what one has experienced here.
I would like to think that naturalism.org is an example of what naturalism as an ethical system would prescribe. It reminds me of Baruch Spinoza's Ethics, which does, like all postmoderns should admit, think of our understanding of reality as subjective, and approaches ethics accordingly. (Nietzsche admired Spinoza, by the way, and also adopted a subjective view of morality for which he became famous.) In such a view, however, one does not throw out the concept of morality, but realizes and accepts one's role in the big picture of the whole of deterministic moral action. Unlike whoever writes for naturalism.org, I don't assume that compassion toward others is a necessary result of believing that human behavior is completely determined by natural forces. However, I think the approach of understanding the causes of another's behavior will inform one's behavior toward them better than holding them to an arbitrary moral responsibility enforced by the myth of human free will.
At any rate: you should probably assure your father that you will probably not decide that a life of crime is for you simply because you don't see any empirical reason to conclude God's existence. I assume that your parents have raised you better than that, and you see pragmatic reasons to carry on the ethics they have instilled into you. Perhaps if you mentioned these things, the discussion between you and your father would not seem as urgent or dramatic?
I'm still waiting for the latest in this exchange. I'm sure there'll be something in a few days (or so).
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Certainly Marx would not have endorsed the Soviet Union or any other such totalitarian nightmare. Marx' whole ethic was about freeing people from the shackles of capitalism, not freeing them in order to be enslaved in state capitalism.
I'm not too familiar with Spinoza's ethics. I'm not really that into subjectivism. I am though a non-cognitivist, a position often confused as being subjectivist. I don't believe there are such things as moral facts, fundamental rights or natural morality. It would be a hell of a lot easier if there were such things but making such a claim is like saying God exists. However, I understand that morality is important, it serves a purpose in our co-existence of human beings, and for our own mutual benefit it should be used, adapted and rationalised accordingly. My conclusion is therefore that utilitarianism, particularly that of John Stuart Mill is the best way of using morality for our mutual benefit. When I make moral claims in my ethical philosophy I am not making claims about nature or absolute right and wrong, more rational judgements based upon principles of utilitarian based upon mutual benefit.
On an entirely different note, it says you joined in 1970! I honestly don't understand that! That's before most of the founders were born and probably before the internet was invented. How did you do that?
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well, it's not quite as simple as marx "advocating atheism." marx merely identified religion (specifically european christianity) as a means of the bourgeoisie keeping the proletariat sedated (the famous "opiate" quote). belief in god per se, as opposed to organized religion as a tool of bourgeois oppression, was not really addressed at any length in any of his works that i'm aware of.
as for what marx would have thought of the soviet union, please go see the short essay i recently posted on the "unofficial FAQ" blog. to reiterate some ideas i posted there:
marx was an economist, political scientist, and historical critic. religion and metaphysics in general held no interest for him. he identified the cause of humanity's ills, through what he at least considered scientific means, as class struggle, with or without religion. he believed that capitalism, the product of the revolution of the bourgeoisie against the medieval church and feudalism, was in a state of decay and that a revolution of the proletariat would naturally occur when the petty bourgeoisie realized that the great bourgeoisie could no longer be trusted with society, and thus threw in their lot with the proletariat. trotsky identified the failure (and predicted the collapse) of the soviet union as coming from reactionary elements in the petty bourgeoisie that caused stalin to reverse the New Economic Policy, tighten state centralization, and force agricultural collectivization on the peasantry.
marx probably would have identified the failure of the soviet union (and the reason for its totalitarianism) as lenin's attempts to create an artificial environment for socialist revolution, i.e., lenin's failure to cope with the fact that the necessary preconditions of developed capitalism had never had a chance to develop in russia. a vast leap from near-feudalism to socialism in less than a decade is not solid marxist theory.
as an american who's been living in the former czechoslovakia for almost 4 years now (and who knows more about its history than his slovak wife), i can say i know of no communist leader who felt he could do "anything" because he "didn't believe in god." the atrocities that happened in the former soviet union happened because of stalin's attempts to consolidate collectivization and centralization. by "Eastern Europe" i'm assuming That Guy means the central/eastern european bloc, i.e., czechoslovakia, poland, the baltic republics, hungary, etc. most of the atrocities that occured in those countries (and there were much fewer than in the soviet union itself) happened because of a constant tension between liberalizing elements who wanted to try their own independent forms of socialism, and hardline old socialists who wanted to stick to the post-stalinist soviet line. there were always many factors and even stalin never had unlimited power. it was never just about a couple leaders who thought they were accountable to no one because they didn't believe in god.
incidentally, i heard that gorbachev just recently proclaimed publicly that he is a christian.
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
Lets see, he starts off (first sentence) claiming that I have faith in evolution, that "strong rationalism" is naïve, and that philosophers will laugh at me for it, then he brings out the god of the gaps... THEN he brings out an appeal to improbability, claims Occam would side with theists, does an appeal to personal experience, an argumentum ad commies, now we're all just making excuses because we secretly believe in god but we want to do what we want without limits... Oh, now I'm angry at god for something... and I'm incapable of coming up with my own arguments, so I must have been quoting someone.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Think I also spotted Argument from morality in there. Reading through that,I realise that however long or eloquent they are,90% of christians arguments are exactly the same. Good luck carrying it on.
Psalm 14:1 "the fool hath said in his heart there is a God"-From a 1763 misprinted edition of the bible
Argument from Sadism: Theist presents argument in a wall of text with no punctuation and wrong spelling. Atheist cannot read and is forced to concede.
I've written 4 pages already in response to his first 3 paragraphs, and I'm not done with that part.
It's difficult to come up with new reasons to believe in god - there hasn't really been anything new supporting it for a while
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
The only thing intellectually sound with your dad is his writing style, so calm and convincing. I bet he could try telling you the planet Jupiter is actually made of bubble bath and sound convincing. I guess it's all part of this intellectual Christian doctrine of "make bad arguments but sound convincing," he's very good at it. I'm impressed.
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"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Your exchange mirrors that which I recently had with my father. Mine ended fairly quickly. I took him to task for saying that we have to choose to believe in something, and for relying on anecdotal evidence. I think if he tries again, I am going to make him read Demon Haunted World and God Delusion.
All that is necessary for the triumph of good is that evil men do nothing.
You've done a good job of answering your father's challenges to your atheism. No disrespect to your father, but many of his lines are emotional, speculative, and\or irrelevant. Why not go on the offensive and point out some of the many irrational beliefs of Christianity and ask your father to examine his own beliefs with the same passion with which he's been challenging your lack of?
Here's a question that's always been on my mind in these theist vs atheist debates: How is pointing out a few small rapidly closing holes in the theory of evolution supposed to convince me to believe a book that implies that the Earth is 6000 years old, flat, and doesn't include Australia or the Americas? How does pointing out what science can't YET explain convince me that an all hating god sent part of himself to sacrifice to himself so he can forgive what he allegedly made himself?
"I've yet to witness circumstance successfully manipulated through the babbling of ritualistic nonsense to an imaginary deity." -- me (josh)
If god can do anything, can he make a hot dog so big even he can't eat all of it?
Hey Mazid,
Nice to see that you were able to have a level discussion with your father. I remember you saying in chat how conflicted you were about the whole thing. Do you think the conversation is likely to continue, or reach a comfortable/uncomfortable stalemate?
M
Forget Jesus, the stars died so that you could be here
- Lawrence Krauss
Hazindu, the short answer is that my father will listen pay attention when there is an answer to his arguments that he can't deny as true. I might not have any hope overall, but knowing my father I will get better results by having legitimate responses to anything he says at this point. Once I have stripped away all the dross I'll get down to pulverizing the core of his misled beliefs.
McF, I don't really have that much hope that I'll be able to convince my father that he's been wasting his time these past 35 years or so with christianity (not to mention all the tithe money gone forever, but that would be an afterthought for him).
Dude, get him the audio books, so he can't skim it as easily
So now we wait another 2 weeks for the latest reply. I wonder if it means anything that it takes him 2-3 weeks to reply, while I get back to him inside 5 hours...
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Great debate. I enjoy it very much, can't wait for the sequel.
For anyone who's still hoping for a continuation of this conversation, so am I. It's over a month now since I wrote back, and I still haven't had a reply.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Glad you updated, I was worried you had just abandoned the spectators and continued on your own. I think it's remarkable the amount of patients and respect you've shown him through all this.
I wonder what's taking so long. Maybe a completely different approach? I half way suspect next time you get a response you'll be sifting through hundreds of pages of flood "evidence". Be ready to explain why there are fossils buried in sediment on a mountain...
"I've yet to witness circumstance successfully manipulated through the babbling of ritualistic nonsense to an imaginary deity." -- me (josh)
If god can do anything, can he make a hot dog so big even he can't eat all of it?
I'll be able to explain things like that. It's funny you bring it up, but I recently got a book that deals with that sort of thing. It makes for a fun read, but I've been a bit strung out with schoolwork to finish it so far :/
I think I may just make the next move - I've got some questions that I'd like his take on.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
I was just wondering,was your father the one that started this debate? And has now disapeared?
I have a similiar situation.I was debating a christian friend on Facebook, but they stopped responding,after I sent a follow up message I eventually got a response, now nothing for quite awhile. What is it with them...
Psalm 14:1 "the fool hath said in his heart there is a God"-From a 1763 misprinted edition of the bible
Argument from Sadism: Theist presents argument in a wall of text with no punctuation and wrong spelling. Atheist cannot read and is forced to concede.
My father started this... kinda. It was more like I started it by becoming an atheist and actually telling him about it.
Here's what I'm sending to him now:
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Wow, call this a red letter day! He finally replied! Technically he replied to the short letter earlier, but I thought I'd post both together.
And now for today's addition - and boy do I take issue!!
Just wow. I think I might leave this for a day so as to not reply out of utter irritation.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Please don't tell me your father is one of those 'if it wasn't for god I would just kill people' people.
Well,I have to say he doesn't offer anything new or exciting.Just the same tired arguemnts we've all seen on this site.As usual his eloquence makes them seem more credible than they are. Appeal to Popularity? Scraping the barrel abit.
Looking forward to your response.Hopefully we don't have to wait a month again.
Psalm 14:1 "the fool hath said in his heart there is a God"-From a 1763 misprinted edition of the bible
Argument from Sadism: Theist presents argument in a wall of text with no punctuation and wrong spelling. Atheist cannot read and is forced to concede.
Well, here goes nothing!
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
well, if we're only to use occam to answer the question "how did the universe come into being," it seems to me the simplest answer is "it didn't." "how do you explain what we perceive around us?" "delusion." "who is being deluded?" "nobody." radical solopsism is the ultimate leveller. it's also bullshit.
but in the end, your father completely misunderstands occam's razor, like most people who invoke it. "the simplest solution is the best" means the theory that makes the fewest assumptions is the most likely, not "the shit i can make up that is easiest for me to understand is right." what makes more assumptions than creationism?
jesus fucking christ, i am so sick of self-satisfied fundies invoking the soviet union, which they know utter jack shit about outside their over-simplified, propaganda-filled public school history textbooks. the soviet union, especially under stalin, could be a very shitty place to live, but during that same time period, i.e., the great depression and WWII, most of the world was a shitty place to live in. a lot of modern russians look back on the stalinist era with nostalgia, right or wrong. it's just so goddamn pompous and chauvinistic for christians, especially american ones, to see the soviet union as one long era of concrete, barbed wire, and endless bread lines, and say, "oh, thank god we never had to live in that awful place. we can chalk that up to jesus and billy graham."
btw, i know i'm addressing very old posts but i've been away from this thread for a while. big fan though!
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
that is fucking racist, imperialist, chauvinistic bullshit and i really thought your father was more intelligent than that. "yes, yes, massa, some good t'ings done come pourin' out da USA and europe for all us stupid heathen colored folk. thank ya, suh, thank ya." un-fucking-believable.
the africans and native americans are really happy you good christian whities came. thanks for all the smallpox, AIDS, and genocide. thanks for taking away all the food crop land so we could grow nothing but cotton and rubber for your lazy fucking pious families. mmmm...rubber sandwich. praise jebus!
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
Honestly dude, I totally agree. I'm constantly astonished at how backwards my fathers thought processes are. I can only think that he avoids the inevitable conclusions at which we have arrived by contorting and distorting what would otherwise be a healthy and tolerant worldview. I'm trying to dismantle these, but he just turned like 54, so it's an uphill battle.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
honestly, beneath all the trappings your father is basically making the same arguments every old codger makes when his children challenge his precious but bigoted beliefs.
really, he's starting to sound like an eloquent archie bunker. strip away all the erudition and you basically get something like, "aw, youse kids yuz, yuz all thinks yuz so smaht. well answer me dis, science boy, why ain't cats poiple, anh? how can yuz talk like dat about good christian folk? look what we done fuh da cuhluds!"
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
So now it's not just my father, but my older brother (lets call him Mark) is along for the ride! Just a bit of background, my brother is an ordained minister with his own congregation and everything.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
I said I'd catch up and read this thread, and now that I have, I needed the proper image to convey getting to the end.
Alright now, this is really getting old. Notice how all he seems to want to do is pretend that I'm just being too clever for myself and tricking myself out of loving god. I'm going to see him next week and we'll probably have it out in person.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
i really wish your father would come off this shit. as a person who has been an avid student of eastern thought and its history--particularly islam, vedanta, buddhism, taoism, and confucianism--for many years now, this really offends me. why do the religiously bigoted, and christians in particular, always feel the need to talk glibly about "the east" when it's clear they have no knowledge of the topic at all outside a few careless lines in a broad textbook or, worse yet, some goddamn apologetics bullshit. "buddhism" as taught in the pali canon, especially those works most scholars recognize as representative of the historical buddha, say NOTHING about god or gods. nothing about them existing or not existing. in fact, in an early scripture we see the buddha chastising a disciple for asking what happens after death. the later, more elaborate forms of tibetan and mahayana buddhism incorporated gods from preexisting folklore. the ONLY sense in which buddhism could (tentatively) be called "atheistic" is that, in its purest theravada form, it does not consider belief in a deity as a requirement for reaching its goal.
as for hinduism, christians are often TOTALLY clueless here. hinduism is monistic, not polytheistic, and all its "gods," or, as one hindu teacher i once met insisted on calling them, "god-forms," are only personified aspects of brahman/atman and the activity of the life-cycle of the universe. i have NO idea where your father got his assertion that hinduism has no "uniform set of laws"--probably out of thin air--but hinduism has more moral and social precepts than any form of christianity i've ever studied (and i was a religion major).
which history book is he reading? was it written by ratzinger? or josh mcdowell? there have been MANY points throughout the world's history when "eastern" science was light years ahead of christian/european/"western" science. the low point of western science was precisely the "christian" middle ages when the church dictated most aspects of life. the muslim world and china especially were making amazing progress in medicine, astronomy, navigation, sanitation, and industry, while the church and the aristocracy were living in their own filth. i mean PAPER, PRINTING, anyone??? gutenberg would never have had his bible had it not been for the HEATHEN chinese! and in case your father wants to bring out the tired old protestant argument of "oh, that was because the heretic catholic church was in power; when the reformation came along it brought the godly light of science and invention to europe," you can remind him that MOST of the scientific advances made by europe had NOTHING to do with fat, foul-mouthed, antisemitic, manic-depressive luther, but rather with increased trade and exchange of ideas with the HEATHEN, GODLESS, SAVAGE "orientals." either that, or rediscovering the knowledge of ancient PAGAN rome where they BARBECUED the elect (concrete, sewer systems, running water, etc., etc.).
even in our times, who are some of the world's leading industrialists, inventors, technicians, etc.? the godless BUDDHIST, SHINTOIST japanese! i grew up on a farm and i'll tell ya, i'll take a kubota tractor over a john deere anyday!
feel free to quote any of this to your dad.
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
Great responses, Mazid. Very thorough yet to the point.
It boggles my mind on why theists think that without religion there is no point to humanitarian actions. Well, that says a lot about religion...according to that idea, people are humanitarian because they have to be and are told to be, not for any compelling reason.
The reasons for humanitarian actions is a completely separate concept from faith in magical things. When people try to mesh the two it gets very sticky and obviously fallacious.
*Our world is far more complex than the rigid structure we want to assign to it, and we will probably never fully understand it.*
"Those believers who are sophisticated enough to understand the paradox have found exciting ways to bend logic into pretzel shapes in order to defend the indefensible." - Hamby
this reminds me of why i love classical confucian thought. its whole message is basically "humans should be benevolent because it makes society better." of course, mazid's father finds that level of thought backward and primitive, i'm sure.
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
Nothing quite like a 'The bad things make us appreciate the good things' argument.
Of course, this entire argument breaks down once you factor in god's omnipotence, as any omnipotent gott would be able to make humans able to appreciate the good without having the bad, and also make them able to make good decisions without any bad consequences to show us what the good decisions were, we would all just know. And if it was truly omnipotent then god could easily have done all this without violating Free Will. I have no idea how it could, but I'm not god, so I don't need to know.
After all, I wouldn't want to seem like I thought I was greater than god.
Extra credit for the people who notice that this argument directly contradicts the bible, as Adam and Eve seemed to be perfectly content in the garden even when no bad things happened to show them how good the good things were.
When you say it like that you make it sound so Sinister...
I'm not sure I mentioned it yet, but this upcoming weekend I'm going home for a family reunion, and my older brother (preacher that he is) seems intent on discussing with me at length. I will be somewhat short on sleep, but I'll be recording the conversation (no, not covertly) and probably transcribing the good parts - or as much of it as I feel like. I don't think I'll be getting any more exchanges until then, so this may be it for a bit.
btw, thanks for the compliment, peppermint
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
i also love how your father keeps harping on this argument that if you can understand something, you're "greater" than it. this is something right out of anselm or aquinas. why does that necessarily follow? and just what does he mean by "greater"? it's possible for me to completely grasp dr. hawking's unified field theory (i don't, but it's possible) but that certainly doesn't make me intellectually "greater." it's possible for humans to understand, and create, a nuclear reactor, but a nuclear reactor can majorly fuck them up. can we majorly fuck up god? i personally believe it's possible for the human intellect to grasp anything and everything within our three dimensions of perception--we just don't have all the data--but that doesn't mean there isn't anything in the universe with a superior intellect. the whole "you don't understand god" argument always reminds me of what a prima donna artist or musician says when they feel they can behave outside the rules of human civility: "well, you just don't understand my genius."
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
Yup, some more of the same. I really wasn't expecting him to write back, but I guess he was just busy :/
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
Looks like you've long since reached the point of diminishing returns. It seems to me rediculous that atheism needs defending, but you did an excellent job of patiently refuting all arguments with logic.
Of course, if you still intend to keep this up, your audience is still enjoying the show.
"I've yet to witness circumstance successfully manipulated through the babbling of ritualistic nonsense to an imaginary deity." -- me (josh)
If god can do anything, can he make a hot dog so big even he can't eat all of it?
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
So tell me what you think.
It seems to me that not only is there a fundamental disconnect between my and my father's null hypotheses, but in our strategies. I keep on attacking with what I consider to be reasoned arguments, but he invariably responds with dogmatic repetition, obfuscation and avoidance of my original questions and uncited "scientific" claims. Short of flatly calling him on this, does anyone see a way that I could perhaps steer him toward reasoning instead of repeating?
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
To me, this exchange is too noisy and long-winded. Too many points are lost in prolix.
Corner him with short and sweet reasoning.
All M are P.
All S are M.
Therefore: All S are P.
People who think there is something they refer to as god don't ask enough questions.
I must say again, that I really admire your patients, and your clearly articulate writing skills. I know I would have gone into condecending mode a long time ago.
"I've yet to witness circumstance successfully manipulated through the babbling of ritualistic nonsense to an imaginary deity." -- me (josh)
If god can do anything, can he make a hot dog so big even he can't eat all of it?
Boom, out of the blue I get a 3 page bomb dropped in my lap in response to my last missive. Here it is!
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie
I was a bit pissed off over that junkscience bullshit, so I actually missed a bit and had to go back and write an addendum.
"But still I am the Cat who walks by himself, and all places are alike to me!" ~Rudyard Kipling
Mazid the Raider says: I'd rather face the naked truth than to go "augh, dude, put some clothes on or something" and hand him some God robes, cause you and I know that the naked truth is pale, hairy, and has an outie
Entomophila says: Ew. AN outie