The Weight of "Wronged"
Posted on: October 26, 2008 - 5:37am
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The Weight of "Wronged"
wronged, wrong·ing, wrongs: To treat unjustly or injuriously. 2. To discredit unjustly; malign. 3. To treat dishonorably; violate.
Who carries this load?
What are the side-effects?
Is this burden heavy to carry?
How can you see beyond this if it's blocking your view?
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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Only those who choose to
Range from nothing to everything
Only if your weak
Put eye holes in it... but destroying it out-right works better... generally
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Me personally, I would have to disagree with your response to #3. Often it is those who imagine that they are supreme who carry the heaviest loads. So it would be hard for them to tell. But I know that these answers are purely subjective so I can't argue with you.
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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True... which is precisely why it works... which is precisely why its true! circular mentality... but you cant deny its effects
What Would Kharn Do?
No. You said ONLY if they are weak...I was illustrating denial in that quote.
And i was illustrating the circular mentality of my superiority complex, and thus, my perception of others
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OH. You were saying that you had a circular mentality...I thought you were saying my answer was circular....I get it. So you do the wronging because you have superiority complex, correct?
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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If you don't do #3 then how could you have answered any of these questions in the first place?
Not exactly what i meant... but close enough.
But honestly, if i was doing the "wronging" because of a superiority complex... i wouldnt consider it wrong, because i would be right (and superior
) in my mind, would i not? Which would make it a matter of perspective on right and wrong, which is exactly where
originates from... Those who choose to carry the load, are those who choose to believe in whatever was "wrong". Those who are not/did no wrong, have no load to carry... and thus careless
What Would Kharn Do?
Just gonna put it out there, but you seem to be of old world Asian mentality, a bit Tao'ist perhaps?
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Logically (I guess that's why u call it circular reasoning) speaking, this response did not make any sense in regards to my last question. But I'm not trying to fight you on this. I simply was trying to interpret your previous post when I said "the wronging". This isn't about classifying right or wrong....In other words, I'm assuming your saying that you are the bully in this type of scenario, correct?
If that's the case, it is what it is.
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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Nope. I don't know what Tao is.
Like your answer to #2. How could you know the side-effects of drugs you've never taken? Or did you just read the doctor's label and base your opinion on that?
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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Normally, most peoples heads explodiate when they delve to deep into the mind of Doomy, so... uh... congratulations?
I was attempting to write up a response to this, but it started to get far to lengthy... and overly wordy, not to mention bore me, so i scrapped it. Might have to do something about it in the future >.> if it suits me
Well, it would be easily observable in others, would it not?
As it stands, those 4 answers are how i operate, if you cant comprehend the reasoning of "why"... then i would stick to philosophy, instead of psychology. It suits you better
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Come now, you must have at least heard of it before
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taoism
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Oh, I feel like I comprehended your response @ post #10. I've seen a couple of people mention it but I am not exactly sure what it is. As a habit, I try not to speak for other people ONLY myself.
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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Here are my answers.
arj1981 wrote:wronged, wrong·ing, wrongs 1. To treat unjustly or injuriously. 2. To discredit unjustly; malign. 3. To treat dishonorably; violate.Who carries this load?
What are the side-effects?
Is this burden heavy to carry?
How can you see beyond this if it's blocking your view?
1. I do.
2. Victimization. Drama. Anger/Rage. Abuse. Hatred. Irrationality. Irritability. Denial.
3. Yes. Even when you don't realize it.
4. Logically speaking, you can't without self-exploration and self-realization.
‘Cause you keep tellin’ me this and tellin’ me that...You say once I’m with you, I’ll never go back... You say there’s a lesson that you wanna teach.... Well, here I am, baby, practice what you preach...
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