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Im single agian ? Rant or Rave
Posted on: May 25, 2010 - 8:16am
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Im single agian ? Rant or Rave
well she broke it off under an emotional state called anger So do you guys think its really over or she just needs some space
Oh she said come back to her when i change my attitude what the fuck is that she got on all stupid
What to do guys
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look, as a married man who quite honestly has regrets now and then (doesn't mean i don't love my wife, but i can't say i wouldn't do things differently if i could turn back the clock), no other person is worth your unhappiness, period. if she won't take you just as you are now, let her go. otherwise, it will end up in co-dependency. trust me.
"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
I wouldn't tend to do anything. Move on?
But then, I shy away from drama. If a girl goes all crazy about something, that's generally the last time I want to talk with her.
You can find one less hysterical.
EDIT: What iwbiek said. When I was a wee lad, my father re-married to a bitch... I got to watch from an [initially] unbiased position as the whole thing unfolded. Not wanting to end up in a similar position is why I pretty much cease contact at the first sign of that kind of emotional instability.
it has happened before and we came back together but i dont know if i want her anymore she do loves me tho
im confused
EDIT: she is the only female atheist i know in my country
Enjoy the good times with her that you can, and if the drama becomes too much, call it off. As a VERY outspoken person, I tend to eventually offend EVERY chick I date, and as a person who hates all things drama, relationships don't go very well for me...
Oh well.
So, if you can have good times with her, you care about her and she cares about you, enjoy what time you can have with her, but don't expect anything else. If it's something about "your attitude" then it looks like it's doomed, but that doesn't mean it has to end badly.
No matter what... good luck dude! We're all wishing you the best!
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"The means in which you take,
dictate the ends in which you find yourself."
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Are you sure about this? I don't think I have ever met a girl that is not way more emotional than I am. I have just come to accept that this is a compromise I have to make in order to have relationships.
Then again, I am only 19 years old.
edit: to answer the OP's question. Emotions are very dynamic feelings, so if she broke it off because she is angry, it is not over.
I don't understand why the Christians I meet find it so confusing that I care about the fact that they are wasting huge amounts of time and resources playing with their imaginary friend. Even non-confrontational religion hurts atheists because we live in a society which is constantly wasting resources and rejecting rational thinking.
i think she acted the way she did because of family pressure
her mother is giving her some trouble lately
i will see if i can get back in touch with her later in the week
thnks guys
Yes, they run in a spectrum from expressing the hysteria, to bottling it up and not dealing with it (usually serious emotional issues)- the latter are the "ice queens".
The hysteria itself, though, varies... there's the interpersonal hysterical rage to intrapersonal hysterical rage.
Some will take it out on you, and some (usually the "emo" type) will just blame themselves and feel miserable- possibly cut themselves or commit suicide.
I like the second better, but not by much- mostly because they don't yell so much. They do cry quite a bit, though. And I don't like being on suicide watch.
I tend to go for the Ice queens over either... but there are really, phenomenally rare cases where those "ice queens" who bottle it up have realized that it's not healthy, and either have therapy, or have other ways of dealing with it- the psychologist types who sound like a living self-help book.
I like the walking, talking, self-help book girls- somebody who is actually taking control of her emotions and dealing with them properly (even though it sounds silly sometimes).
The others are *capable* of doing this self-help thing, but they won't (or almost never will).
The self loathing ones don't believe they deserve to get better, and the you-loathing ones think you deserve what you get when you get it. Capable, yes- willing, no.
That is, in my experience.
OP: Where do you live where she's the only atheist girl you know?
i guess so @^ i live in trinidad amd tobago look it up
One in a hundred or so girls there should be atheists. Shouldn't be too hard.
I mean, seriously:
http://www.humanist.org.tt/
There's even a facebook group.
Go to Las Vegas... Find yourself some lovely, yet morally casual young ladies... break as many commandments as you can...Then find someone willing to allow you to use the small of their back as the canvas for your modern art masterpiece...
While your doing this, consider spending the rest of your life sharing one set of genetalia...and decide whether you're better off leaving a DNA trail all over nevada, or being like the rest of married world, hoping to exchange that moment in time when they muttered the words "I DO" for the starring role in an Al Queda behading video
(just a thought)
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Fred, may I ask:
"WHAT PART OF THE WORLD ARE YOU FROM?!?!?"
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"I have never felt comfortable around people who talk about their feelings for Jesus, or any other deity for that matter, because they are usually none too bright. . . . Or maybe 'stupid' is a better way of saying it; but I have never seen much point in getting heavy with either stupid people or Jesus freaks, just as long as they don't bother me. In a world as weird and cruel as this one we have made for ourselves, I figure anybody who can find peace and personal happiness without ripping off somebody else deserves to be left alone. They will not inherit the earth, but then neither will I. . . . And I have learned to live, as it were, with the idea that I will never find peace and happiness, either. But as long as I know there's a pretty good chance I can get my hands on either one of them every once in a while, I do the best I can between high spots."
--Hunter S. Thompson
“A meritocratic society is one in which inequalities of wealth and social position solely reflect the unequal distribution of merit or skills amongst human beings, or are based upon factors beyond human control, for example luck or chance. Such a society is socially just because individuals are judged not by their gender, the colour of their skin or their religion, but according to their talents and willingness to work, or on what Martin Luther King called 'the content of their character'. By extension, social equality is unjust because it treats unequal individuals equally.” "Political Ideologies" by Andrew Heywood (2003)
haha so resource full im supposed to go the annual meeting with them soon lol
Update: she came back to me at my house and is telling me lets see how thing goes with us WHAT THE FUCK
hahahahaha.....sorry about that advent...have fun with her, all I can say is that personally I would be gone, but then again I don't have issues with women and their religion in my area of the woods. However I have dealt with emotional women (not saying all women are emotional....just some that I have unfortunately dated) I have learned to just walk away. But then again I am simply getting just a bit of the story from you, not the whole thing.
1 in 50 girls should be atheist
“A meritocratic society is one in which inequalities of wealth and social position solely reflect the unequal distribution of merit or skills amongst human beings, or are based upon factors beyond human control, for example luck or chance. Such a society is socially just because individuals are judged not by their gender, the colour of their skin or their religion, but according to their talents and willingness to work, or on what Martin Luther King called 'the content of their character'. By extension, social equality is unjust because it treats unequal individuals equally.” "Political Ideologies" by Andrew Heywood (2003)
Me too, it's why I've not been seen nor heard of for the better part of six months. I've been living on my best friend's sofa until a few weeks ago.
I wouldn't worry about it. Either she'll come around or she won't, but there's no point trying to 'change your attitude' or any other nonsense pretending to be something you're not. Having spent the last few years trying to change my attitude without success, I can tell you that it will do you no good at all.
On the plus side (for me), looks like there might be a someone else in the offing (if the hickey I woke up with the other day is anything to go by), and me and the ex are quite good friends now, so there's hope.
God: "Thou Must Go from This Place Lest I Visit Thee with Boils!"
Man: "Really? Most people would bring a bottle of wine"
The other one is 10% theist. It only takes one drop of theism.
Don't worry about it, I think real women will be obsolete soon:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SqmlUUYEOKA&has_verified=1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbFFs4DHWys&feature=fvw
And they are even better able to think for themselves than theists!
Taxation is the price we pay for failing to build a civilized society. The higher the tax level, the greater the failure. A centrally planned totalitarian state represents a complete defeat for the civilized world, while a totally voluntary society represents its ultimate success. --Mark Skousen
My best advice would be to just swear off women altogether. And I think a nice long massage would help, too. I give a kick ass massage, btw, so if you want to come over...
=D
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“A meritocratic society is one in which inequalities of wealth and social position solely reflect the unequal distribution of merit or skills amongst human beings, or are based upon factors beyond human control, for example luck or chance. Such a society is socially just because individuals are judged not by their gender, the colour of their skin or their religion, but according to their talents and willingness to work, or on what Martin Luther King called 'the content of their character'. By extension, social equality is unjust because it treats unequal individuals equally.” "Political Ideologies" by Andrew Heywood (2003)