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Everyone, how are ya ?

Hey everyone, been a while since i have posted here, i just lurk haha

but have been going thru alot of shit home, so

 

But hey anyone wanna add me on facebook it

Jaheel Frederick......... the black guy haha  just leave a message saying you are from here

 

So how was everyone's last year ?

 

 


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Fine & dandy

 

 

 

                        I  was wondering where you were.  How are things in T & T?  I still think you have the greatest family name. Any chance your mothers name is Hannah?  This is from the big white guy in Toronto.

 

 

 

 

               Jim E. F. Frederick

                   Jeffrick

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                        I  was wondering where you were.  How are things in T & T?  I still think you have the greatest family name. Any chance your mothers name is Hannah?  This is from the big white guy in Toronto.

 

 

 

 

               Jim E. F. Frederick

                   Jeffrick

 

Hey mate, things are ok to say the least, my name is great lol thanks, and na my moms name is Michelle Laborde .........So whats up with you ?


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In S.A.

 

 

 

                   I was in Guyana between  Nov 15 and Dec 9 for a family event.  That means I stopped at  T & T twice, they never let us out of the airport though.

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                   I was in Guyana between  Nov 15 and Dec 9 for a family event.  That means I stopped at  T & T twice, they never let us out of the airport though.

 

Lol, you should visit mate, but guyana does have a native white population right ?

Also the rest of the caribbean dont really like the Trinidad and tobago people lol


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Hey Fred

 

How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 


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How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 

 

Things are not good mate, nasty break up, abusive mom, financial problems not good Sad


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Another black atheist?

Another black atheist? Jeebus kristos on a cracker man. What happened to the good ol days when you could sit them at the back of the bus, now we have to share our godlessness with them?

(Note to self: prepare for ass kicking. PS, Did I think this, or type it?)

Welcome back man. Now excuse me while I look on line to hire a body guard.

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Atheistextremist wrote:

 

How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 

 

Things are not good mate, nasty break up, abusive mom, financial problems not good Sad

In all seriousness. I posted my welcome back, before I read this. My timing sucks.

I hope things get better for you. Break ups are always bad. I know what it was like when my x left me. That hurt like a son of a bitch.

I'd say in any relationship, don't let other people's baggage become yours. You cant change other people, you can only do things for yourself. Let others be themselves and if you are not on the same page, don't be bitter about it or hold a grudge, just simply go your separate ways.

I accepted my wife leaving me, not because I wanted it, but because she was her own person and it would have been worse if she had stayed in our relationship out of some utopia clechi of "loyalty". The reality was that she didn't feel the same as when we fell in love. It would have done neither of us any good to force something that was not working.

Rejection sucks and conflict sucks, but HOW one deals with it is important. If you dwell on what they do trying to control them, instead of accepting things the way they are and making decisions for yourself, you are going to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship. And that goes with lovers and family. You can only control yourself. You can appeal to others, but if they don't respond, then it is up to you to stay or go.

I am not saying this is what YOU are doing. Just advising you on HOW to better cope without dwelling on things you cant control.

 

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Brian37 wrote:Adventfred

Brian37 wrote:

Adventfred wrote:

Atheistextremist wrote:

 

How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 

 

Things are not good mate, nasty break up, abusive mom, financial problems not good Sad

In all seriousness. I posted my welcome back, before I read this. My timing sucks.

I hope things get better for you. Break ups are always bad. I know what it was like when my x left me. That hurt like a son of a bitch.

I'd say in any relationship, don't let other people's baggage become yours. You cant change other people, you can only do things for yourself. Let others be themselves and if you are not on the same page, don't be bitter about it or hold a grudge, just simply go your separate ways.

I accepted my wife leaving me, not because I wanted it, but because she was her own person and it would have been worse if she had stayed in our relationship out of some utopia clechi of "loyalty". The reality was that she didn't feel the same as when we fell in love. It would have done neither of us any good to force something that was not working.

Rejection sucks and conflict sucks, but HOW one deals with it is important. If you dwell on what they do trying to control them, instead of accepting things the way they are and making decisions for yourself, you are going to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship. And that goes with lovers and family. You can only control yourself. You can appeal to others, but if they don't respond, then it is up to you to stay or go.

I am not saying this is what YOU are doing. Just advising you on HOW to better cope without dwelling on things you cant control.

 

 

HEy im the bus driver, why would i sit at the back lol

 

Im getting over her, i think, but my mom is the real problem, she hates me for as long as i know myself

Right now i have to borrow money to try and move out, as im not working as yet, i also have to take this semester off to catch myself, life is not good, i just dont feel like living right now, i do have great friends but they are from other countries like you all here.

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Adventfred wrote:Brian37

Adventfred wrote:

Brian37 wrote:

Adventfred wrote:

Atheistextremist wrote:

 

How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 

 

Things are not good mate, nasty break up, abusive mom, financial problems not good Sad

In all seriousness. I posted my welcome back, before I read this. My timing sucks.

I hope things get better for you. Break ups are always bad. I know what it was like when my x left me. That hurt like a son of a bitch.

I'd say in any relationship, don't let other people's baggage become yours. You cant change other people, you can only do things for yourself. Let others be themselves and if you are not on the same page, don't be bitter about it or hold a grudge, just simply go your separate ways.

I accepted my wife leaving me, not because I wanted it, but because she was her own person and it would have been worse if she had stayed in our relationship out of some utopia clechi of "loyalty". The reality was that she didn't feel the same as when we fell in love. It would have done neither of us any good to force something that was not working.

Rejection sucks and conflict sucks, but HOW one deals with it is important. If you dwell on what they do trying to control them, instead of accepting things the way they are and making decisions for yourself, you are going to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship. And that goes with lovers and family. You can only control yourself. You can appeal to others, but if they don't respond, then it is up to you to stay or go.

I am not saying this is what YOU are doing. Just advising you on HOW to better cope without dwelling on things you cant control.

 

 

HEy im the bus driver, why would i sit at the back lol

 

Im getting over her, i think, but my mom is the real problem, she hates me for as long as i know myself

Right now i have to borrow money to try and move out, as im not working as yet, i also have to take this semester off to catch myself, life is not good, i just dont feel like living right now, i do have great friends but they are from other countries like you all here.

Wish a sexy white lady could cum save me Eye-wink

I've been in the pits myself and yea, quitting sometimes seems to be the quick answer. But I've stuck it out so far and if I did quit, I would have missed out on being alive now and since those down times, I have bounced back.

I am not saying that I have a right to demand you stick around. Only to say that utopias don't exist and you can always get out of the muck to some degree. Life will never be perfect. If losing money and a place to live, and parting from a loved one, was the worst humanity had to worry about, we'd all be better off.

I don't know your relationship with your mom and I have myself, cut off my relationship with my own biological brother whom I found decades later after being adopted. If she wont let you be yourself then she is the one with the problem. I know, it can hurt when your own family rejects you. But you cant sacrifice your own self worth, even for them.

And if that avatar is you, I hate you. You have a suave Denzel Washington look.

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And why would you OR I need

And why would you OR I need a woman, white or black? If you are lonely, that is understandable. I get that way too. But having a relationship, just to have one, is just plain stupid. I would rather be single and lonely than to be in a relationship just to compete with society.

Having a relationship is something you do because you want to. BUT, even then, you really have to have more in common with the person other than sexual attraction or label. If I met a hot atheist chick but she wanted to go out every night and hated being at home, other than our atheism, we would have nothing in common

While I don't buy into the "sole mate" crap, there is something to be said with surrounding yourself with like minded people. "Love" isn't merely being attracted to boobs or large dicks. Love is when you clean the toilet after your partner craps all over it because of an intestinal virus.

I have, for at least now, decided FOR MYSELF, that being single is what I want. I have been through dating and marriage and have found, that while those were good, being by myself is right for me, right now. If you are as good looking as that avatar implies, you should have no problem attracting a partner.

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Brian37 wrote:Adventfred

Brian37 wrote:

Adventfred wrote:

Brian37 wrote:

Adventfred wrote:

Atheistextremist wrote:

 

How's it going? Hope all well at your end.

 

 

 

 

Things are not good mate, nasty break up, abusive mom, financial problems not good Sad

In all seriousness. I posted my welcome back, before I read this. My timing sucks.

I hope things get better for you. Break ups are always bad. I know what it was like when my x left me. That hurt like a son of a bitch.

I'd say in any relationship, don't let other people's baggage become yours. You cant change other people, you can only do things for yourself. Let others be themselves and if you are not on the same page, don't be bitter about it or hold a grudge, just simply go your separate ways.

I accepted my wife leaving me, not because I wanted it, but because she was her own person and it would have been worse if she had stayed in our relationship out of some utopia clechi of "loyalty". The reality was that she didn't feel the same as when we fell in love. It would have done neither of us any good to force something that was not working.

Rejection sucks and conflict sucks, but HOW one deals with it is important. If you dwell on what they do trying to control them, instead of accepting things the way they are and making decisions for yourself, you are going to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship. And that goes with lovers and family. You can only control yourself. You can appeal to others, but if they don't respond, then it is up to you to stay or go.

I am not saying this is what YOU are doing. Just advising you on HOW to better cope without dwelling on things you cant control.

 

 

HEy im the bus driver, why would i sit at the back lol

 

Im getting over her, i think, but my mom is the real problem, she hates me for as long as i know myself

Right now i have to borrow money to try and move out, as im not working as yet, i also have to take this semester off to catch myself, life is not good, i just dont feel like living right now, i do have great friends but they are from other countries like you all here.

Wish a sexy white lady could cum save me Eye-wink

I've been in the pits myself and yea, quitting sometimes seems to be the quick answer. But I've stuck it out so far and if I did quit, I would have missed out on being alive now and since those down times, I have bounced back.

I am not saying that I have a right to demand you stick around. Only to say that utopias don't exist and you can always get out of the muck to some degree. Life will never be perfect. If losing money and a place to live, and parting from a loved one, was the worst humanity had to worry about, we'd all be better off.

I don't know your relationship with your mom and I have myself, cut off my relationship with my own biological brother whom I found decades later after being adopted. If she wont let you be yourself then she is the one with the problem. I know, it can hurt when your own family rejects you. But you cant sacrifice your own self worth, even for them.

And if that avatar is you, I hate you. You have a suave Denzel Washington look.

 

Agreed mate, i have form a hate for my mom, i hate her, not because i want to, but thats just how it is.

On the outside my atheism dont "appear" to cause troubles, but i bet it does

 

@your other post, i dont want a relationship for wanting sake or sex, i want it because i like companionship, which i dont have many tangible friends..

And about the white lady im kidding, im not into escapism, but i do love my teh women most lol,,,,, also yes that picture of me is "me" , i dont find i look like denzel lol, im skinny as shit lol